RSD Julien Pimp notes

[Holygrail]

the 4 pillars of being sex worthy:

purposeful- speak with humph, lead the interaction, keeping pressure on with either eye contact, touch, or questions in breaking rapport tonality

controlled- being unreactive, not qualifying yourself, grounded like an oak tree, being the buyer and not the seller, talking in breaking rapport

flowing- entitled like you already have the girl, hugging her smoothly not choppy, everything is part of the plan even if things don't go your way

self amused- creating your own amusement without needing her because whatever you're interested in she'll be interested in, the person having the most fun and giving the least of a fuck are the most addictive traits, making yourself laugh, doing it for you and not her, not having that needy-leeching type of vibe trying to join her party.

 

outer game:

building comfort- roleplaying, what would you do if/ would you rather questions to ask her, conspiracy theories: inside jokes with her with strangers, move her around frequently to new locations, verbally lying: pretending to be from her hometown and then telling her the truth.

investment- forced investment: ordering compliance, compliance hoops: if she asks for something, baby step compliance playfully and stack them more seriously, temporal investment

qualifying-  theres something special about her but you dont know what, future projection: telling her that we should hang out again later, similarities: emphasizing a commonality and letting her you like her for it. Do this only when she's chasing and asking you questions, sprinkle it in and don't over do it.

shit test-  staying unreactive and ice cold, ignore it and move on, exaggerate it playfully

flirting- push: if she likes red, you can say i hate red tongue in cheek, and repeat this like 20% of the conversation

verbals- keep the conversation on her and talk about emotionally deep topics like goals, dreams, fears, childhood, family, hobbies, work. don't interrogate her and add your own commentary in between answers,

touch- break the touch barrier as soon as you meet her with a handshake, maintain eye contact and conversation as you're touching her, you dont have to keep touching her to sleep with her.

Social intuition- maintain the right balance of pressure on/pressure off. too much pressure off and she get bored, too much pressure on and she'll feel uncomfortable, you can sense it in her body language. it's always better to go for something and then calibrate after the fact. if you go too far, just tell her sorry and keep the conversation going like nothing happened.

pulling to the sex location- baby step the pull towards the sex location throughout the entire interaction from the beginning, giving plausible deniability: an innocent excuse like watching a movie or showing something off at your place, or just hanging out as friends. tackling her objections and staying persistent, keeping the interaction moving normally while going there.

When alone with her- start physically escalating, go for the make out and start fingering her, tell her that it doesnt count as sex or that it'll make it sexier, show her that you're emotionally turned on while making out and fingering her, she'll be less likely to resist seeing you so turned on and it will transfer on to her, secretly put on a condom put her panties to the side and stick it in.

Edited October 8, 2021 by Holygrail

[charlie cho]

concise and onto the point. A true student. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

4 hours ago, Holygrail said:

When alone with her- start physically escalating, go for the make out and start fingering her, tell her that it doesnt count as sex or that it'll make it sexier, show her that you're emotionally turned on while making out and fingering her, she'll be less likely to resist seeing you so turned on and it will transfer on to her, secretly put on a condom put her panties to the side and stick it in.

This could very easily turn into a living nightmare if she decides to turn against you. Where is the consent?

 

[something_else]

4 hours ago, Holygrail said:

 start physically escalating, go for the make out and start fingering her, tell her that it doesnt count as sex or that it'll make it sexier, show her that you're emotionally turned on while making out and fingering her, she'll be less likely to resist seeing you so turned on and it will transfer on to her, secretly put on a condom put her panties to the side and stick it in.

All pretty good until we get here. This is where you start sounding super fucking rapey

[Bando]

Not surprising they give good attraction advice but some aspects should be taken with a grain of salt. If you think this is crazy you should see what they used to post on the forum, there was a legitimate reason they got shut down before

[Harlen Kelly]

7 hours ago, Holygrail said:

When alone with her- start physically escalating, go for the make out and start fingering her, tell her that it doesnt count as sex or that it'll make it sexier, show her that you're emotionally turned on while making out and fingering her, she'll be less likely to resist seeing you so turned on and it will transfer on to her, secretly put on a condom put her panties to the side and stick it in.

Hahahahaha, julien is simply hilarious. 

[Holygrail]

1 hour ago, charlie cho said:

@something_else lol. I wonder if Julien really taught this. "Put her panties to the side"... 

I now realize I haven't thought of this before.

he actually did hahaa

[Holygrail]

3 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

This could very easily turn into a living nightmare if she decides to turn against you. Where is the consent?

 

Well of course anytime she gives a serious NO and not token resistance, then you stop. but that card is really solid advice

Edited October 6, 2021 by Holygrail

[Leo Gura]

9 hours ago, Holygrail said:

secretly put on a condom put her panties to the side and stick it in.

Lol

If you need to do this shit, you are a weak-ass man.

She should be begging you to stick it in. Make her beg for it and tell you "Please!"

[Holygrail]

20 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Lol

If you need to do this shit, you are a weak-ass man.

She should be begging you to stick it in. Make her beg for it and tell you "Please!"

hahahaha

[Harlen Kelly]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

She should be begging you to stick it in. Make her beg for it and tell you "Please!"

Most women would not do that on their first sexual encounter because of shyness, the natural awkwardness from the first encounter, and not wanting to be perceived as easy. Expecting that is delusion. 

[Leo Gura]

25 minutes ago, Harlen Kelly said:

because of shyness

So make her feel comfortable. Build the intimacy and trust.

[charlie cho]

@Harlen Kelly theres a saying from sun tzu. Win the war with minimal effort and casualties. Preferrably do not even attack the opponent and win the war. This is plan A. Plan B is sliding her panties to the side and and sticking your condom worn dick in her. 

Whatever get things done right? But it seems its better to get our priorities right whenever we go to war

Edited October 7, 2021 by charlie cho

[Leo Gura]

Just think what it does to your self esteem when you believe you need to stealth-weasel your way into a girl's vagina.

What you're subconsciously telling yourself is that no girl naturally wants you inside her.

I would do the opposite. When you have her turned on, look in her eyes and ask her, "Do you want me inside you?"

If you do your foreplay right, she will be writhing like an eel and begging you Please!

[Holygrail]

Just now, Leo Gura said:

Just think what it does to your self esteem when you believe you need to stealth-weasel your way into a girl's vagina.

What you're subconsciously telling yourself is that no girl wants you inside her.

damn thats definitely true. i should just assume that it will just happen without being all sneaky and weird about it.