Anxiety at work

[Javfly33]

How to deal with feelings of inadequacy at work?

I also suffer from an inability to push people to work (i started a management Role).

Basically 90% of the time Im a nerve wrack because i have always all this thoughts of "priorities" of priority shipment must be on delivery today, etc ( i work in a e commerce delivery Office).

I have to lead +20 people that have been working being couriers for years, some of them +10 years, and me I've only been 1 year and 4 months in the company. 1 month only in this role. I Dont like to lead, push people to work, work with deadlines, etc.

[Bob Seeker]

you probably need to build confidence with interactions and being a man. practice being more assertive. Get better with women. use psychedelics to look into the situation and see how it doesn't matter that much. Nothing is that big of a deal. 

These people have been couriers for 10 years but they are basically mules. I don't mean that in a derogatory sense. they are probably good people, but what is one more person stepping on them. Everyone has been stepping on them. At least you have a heart. The company gave you authority. It's yours to use. 

[vizual]

Why did you take the job if you don’t like it?

[Zakaria]

6 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

How to deal with feelings of inadequacy at work?

I also suffer from an inability to push people to work (i started a management Role).

Basically 90% of the time Im a nerve wrack because i have always all this thoughts of "priorities" of priority shipment must be on delivery today, etc ( i work in a e commerce delivery Office).

I have to lead +20 people that have been working being couriers for years, some of them +10 years, and me I've only been 1 year and 4 months in the company. 1 month only in this role. I Dont like to lead, push people to work, work with deadlines, etc.

These videos helped me a lot in dealing with my stress management and Anxiety 

If you do not like your job then you should find a new job that you like.

 

[Javfly33]

6 hours ago, Bob Seeker said:

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These people have been couriers for 10 years but they are basically mules. I don't mean that in a derogatory sense. they are probably good people, but what is one more person stepping on them. Everyone has been stepping on them. At least you have a heart. The company gave you authority. It's yours to use. 

That's a good rationalization to justify my bias Lol

[Bob Seeker]

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

That's a good rationalization to justify my bias Lol

Lol, I don’t mean not be kind or just,  for the record.