Matriarchy VS Patriarchy

[Alysssa]

 

[Zigzag Idiot]

I don’t see the way forward globally being matriarchal either, which in a way would translate into Women/good Man/bad. It’s understandable though considering the YouTube above. 
Maybe matrifocal instead of matriarchal,,,,? But I would bet it will be an emergent development. Something that’s maybe not even being considered in the present moment. That is, if we’re considering a progressive and more conscious way of life in our relative near future going forward.

[Preety_India]

This is not an example of a progressive matriarchy.

It's just some stage Red tribe setting their own rules for survival.

Matriarchal societies won't look anything like this. 

 

[Gesundheit2]

Western society is largely matriarchal. That's super obvious considering the "nice guy" phenomenon.

[Alysssa]

@Zigzag Idiot I don't see either matriarchy or patriarchy as the ultimate solution for the human race forever but I see matriarchy as important structure in order to balance male's dominance. In this video matriarchal is the solution for the radical patriarchy of the villages around them. It's good and healthy to create some balance. 

Our modern society needs more of women dominance and feminine energy in order to balance male's dominance, I happy that it seems we go to this direction, at least, I hope so.

@Knowledge Hoarder Unfortunately, this unnecessary act still exists

@Preety_India There's probably infinite options of matriarchal structures that can exist

@Gesundheit2 I can't agree with you, our society dominated by men. Most of the people who have the power are men. There's a reason why there aren't many women in power position. If our society was matriarchal you wouldn't see so many men in power positions.

 

Nice guy phenomenon is basically guy who manipulate a woman to think he is a good person just in order to sleep with her or to have romantic relationship with her. This kind of guys are nice deliberately in order to benefit from it, not out of pure kindness or good heart. It's a Façade.

Instead of working on themselves in order to attract women they choose the easy way: to buy a woman with fake kindness. Women dedicate so much time, effort and money to be attractive for men, why men shouldn't do the same? 

[Zigzag Idiot]

? Well put @Alysssa

[Gesundheit2]

2 hours ago, Alysssa said:

I can't agree with you, our society dominated by men. Most of the people who have the power are men. There's a reason why there aren't many women in power position. If our society was matriarchal you wouldn't see so many men in power positions.

It isn't about the gender per se. It's about the structure of society; Government and laws are feminine structures, enforced by masculine structures such as the army and the police, which are nowadays almost obsolete in comparison to the legal system. Education is a feminine structure. A lot of the western jobs nowadays are feminine as well. YouTube is feminine. TV shows are feminine. etc.

2 hours ago, Alysssa said:

Nice guy phenomenon is basically guy who manipulate a woman to think he is a good person just in order to sleep with her or to have romantic relationship with her. This kind of guys are nice deliberately in order to benefit from it, not out of pure kindness or good heart. It's a Façade.

Instead of working on themselves in order to attract women they choose the easy way: to buy a woman with fake kindness. Women dedicate so much time, effort and money to be attractive for men, why men shouldn't do the same? 

Yes, exactly. That's what women do. Nice guys pick those subtle behaviors subconsciously from their mothers and teachers at school. They don't go to the farm (or whatever masculine job) with their fathers.

[Preety_India]

How was that tribal matriarchal system useful? That version looks like an all female version to me. 

You're not realizing that this is not helpful. 

 

[hamedsf]

8 hours ago, Gesundheit2 said:

Western society is largely matriarchal. That's super obvious considering the "nice guy" phenomenon.

a guy should be put shoulder to shoulder with his father to get the bitterness of life and getting masculine. sons of cowboys are like that.

that's why cowboys are attractive for women.  

 

[Etherial Cat]

1 hour ago, hamedsf said:

that's why cowboys are attractive for women.  

 

Cowboys...?  Bwhahaha.

[Alysssa]

@Gesundheit2 I can't see how our society is more feminine than masculine. 

It does more feminine compered to the past but it still more masculine than feminine. 

Our society still prefers rationalism over intuition, doing over being, competition over cooperation, judgment over acceptance.

@Preety_India

1. It gives those women a safe place to live in or at least a sense of safety.

2. It brings them some sense of control over their life.

Those are good enough reasons to create such a village.

The fact that this exists in such a country means that it useful.

 

 

 

 

[Etherial Cat]

12 hours ago, Alysssa said:

 

That was a cool docu to watch.

Is this possible that we've been witnessing stage purple/red women rejecting masculine red values to make an alliance with Green?

Edited September 9, 2021 by Etherial Cat

[Alysssa]

@hamedsf No, generally speaking, it seems like some men are more attracted to cowboys than women attracted to cowboys

[Preety_India]

@Alysssa maybe in a tribal sense, it's useful to them.

But that doesn't fit the vision of a high conscious matriarchal society. 

 

[Alysssa]

@Etherial Cat I don't know but it's a good question, I also wondered about it.

[Alysssa]

@Preety_India I didn't say it fits high conscious matriarchal society. There's many matriarchal structures that can be applied depends on people's needs and level of conscious

[Gesundheit2]

20 minutes ago, Alysssa said:

@Gesundheit2 I can't see how our society is more feminine than masculine. 

It does more feminine compered to the past but it still more masculine than feminine. 

Our society still prefers rationalism over intuition, doing over being, competition over cooperation, judgment over acceptance.

That's a good point. And yes, I agree. I think western society is just less polarized than before and than other parts of the world.

[hamedsf]

9 hours ago, Etherial Cat said:

Cowboys...?  Bwhahaha.

 

You'd love to! 

[hamedsf]

9 hours ago, Alysssa said:

@hamedsf No, generally speaking, it seems like some men are more attracted to cowboys than women attracted to cowboys

I just have zero tolerance for any kind of stupid sarcastic remarks, so watch out what comes out of your keyboard! 

[Alysssa]

@hamedsf I shared my sincere thoughts, there's nothing to be triggered about