Venting

[Blackhawk]

5 hours ago, silene said:

If the obstacle is a brain condition or mental health issue, then it's a pity you don't at least explore the available help, you don't know it won't work if you don't try.  

I wish you all the best and have a good Christmas, man. 

I have tried help. It's a waste of time and energy.

Thanks, you too.

1 hour ago, Ananta said:

My biggest gripe with you is that you do nothing to help yourself, but complain that your situation hasn't improved. It's not going to improve, because you have communication/social anxiety issues your not working on. 

I have tried to improve.

1 hour ago, Ananta said:

Damn, it seems you use this forum like a dating app. ?

Only 1 of them is from this forum.

Edited December 17, 2021 by Blackhawk

[Ananta]

1 hour ago, Blackhawk said:

I have tried help. It's a waste of time and energy

You have been saying this ^, since I got to this forum in 2017!!! 

Time to look in the mirror and really be honest if you're putting your best foot forward in trying to help yourself.

No one here can do it for you. 

Edited December 17, 2021 by Ananta

[Blackhawk]

1 hour ago, Ananta said:

You have been saying this ^, since I got to this forum in 2017!!! 

Time to look in the mirror and really be honest if you're putting your best foot forward in trying to help yourself.

No one here can do it for you. 

It's true. You people are just too unsmart to understand that some people are beyond help and self improvement.

[Ananta]

9 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:

It's true. You people are just too unsmart to understand that some people are beyond help and self improvement.

Looks like I hit a nerve...good.

You haven't tried any "real" help in at least 5 years, maybe longer... 

I get that your issues are severe, that's why you need professional help!

 

[Blackhawk]

32 minutes ago, Ananta said:

Looks like I hit a nerve...good.

You haven't tried any "real" help in at least 5 years, maybe longer... 

I get that your issues are severe, that's why you need professional help!

No you didn't hit a nerve.

Ah the usual "professional help always fixes everything". Repeat it like a brain dead mantra.   Just accept the fact that you people are completely wrong.

Edited December 17, 2021 by Blackhawk

[Ananta]

@Blackhawk
 

Fine, back to the psychology of just agreeing with you.

You suck and your worthless.... Now what?

But, I have a feeling you really love the back/forth argument of "get some help", "no, I'm hopeless, worthless, etc"...."no your not", "yes, I am"..."no, your not".....ad nauseum.

 

[Blackhawk]

16 minutes ago, Ananta said:

@Blackhawk
 

Fine, back to the psychology of just agreeing with you.

You suck and your worthless.... Now what?

But, I have a feeling you really love the back/forth argument of "get some help", "no, I'm hopeless, worthless, etc"...."no your not", "yes, I am"..."no, your not".....ad nauseum.

You actually do think that I suck and that I'm worthless. You just want to look good in others eyes by not saying that you hate me. You need to maintain your reputation of being nice and loving and all that stuff. You are all those latter things, but just not with me, I'm hated even by nice people, that's how much I suck.

[PurpleTree]

5 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:

You actually do think that I suck and that I'm worthless. You just want to look good in others eyes by not saying that you hate me. You need to maintain your reputation of being nice and loving and all that stuff. You are all those latter things, but just not with me, I'm hated even by nice people, that's how much I suck.

 

is this venting thread helping you at all?

do you get any insights?

or is it not helping at all?

 

[Windappreciator]

Some things need to be said to be overcome

[Ananta]

1 hour ago, Blackhawk said:

You actually do think that I suck and that I'm worthless.

No, I actually don't, but it's not what I think that matters. It's what you think.

I also don't hate you. Not gonna lie, I get pissed at ppl, but I don't think I actually hate anyone. 

What I do hate is when ppl act helpless. It drives me nuts. So, I might hate the behavior, but not the person. 

[Blackhawk]

2 hours ago, PurpleTree said:

is this venting thread helping you at all?

do you get any insights?

or is it not helping at all?

No. Nothing has ever helped me. The idea of "help" is a myth.

56 minutes ago, Ananta said:

No, I actually don't, but it's not what I think that matters. It's what you think.

I also don't hate you. Not gonna lie, I get pissed at ppl, but I don't think I actually hate anyone. 

What I do hate is when ppl act helpless. It drives me nuts. So, I might hate the behavior, but not the person. 

Ok you don't hate me, great, but still no female likes me romantically. As long as I don't have a partner I will be miserable, simple as that.

I am helpless.

[Windappreciator]

4 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:

Ok you don't hate me, great, but still no female likes me romantically. As long as I don't have a partner I will be miserable, simple as that.

I am helpless.

 

[Ananta]

2 hours ago, Blackhawk said:

As long as I don't have a partner I will be miserable, simple as that.

Consider a mail order bride. They have them in various countries.

Edited December 17, 2021 by Ananta

[Blackhawk]

1 hour ago, Ananta said:

Consider a mail order bride. They have them in various countries.

Why do you say that? Why would I want a mail order bride? Is it wrong to want a partner?

[Ananta]

18 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:

Why do you say that? Why would I want a mail order bride? Is it wrong to want a partner?

 I'm being 100% serious actually.

Why would you want one? You Said you're helpless. It was just a thought, since you say you can't work on yourself and no women like you.

You could just buy a partner. Why not? Sounds like a perfect solution to your problem to me!

Guess you'd rather be alone.

Edited December 18, 2021 by Ananta

[Blackhawk]

7 minutes ago, Ananta said:

 I'm being 100% serious actually.

Why would you want one? You Said you're helpless. It was just a thought, since you say you can't work on yourself and no women like you.

You could just buy a partner. Why not? Sounds like a perfect solution to your problem to me!

Guess you'd rather be alone.

I want her to love me.

[Ananta]

21 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:

I want her to love me.

Good luck with that.

[Blackhawk]

3 hours ago, Ananta said:

Good luck with that.

Yeah I know that no one can love me.

[Ananta]

8 hours ago, Blackhawk said:

Yeah I know that no one can love me.

I didn't say that. I wish you good luck in finding what you want, without having to do any work on yourself. That's what I meant.

[Guest EmptyVase]

19 hours ago, Blackhawk said:

You actually do think that I suck and that I'm worthless.

I actually do think that the way you think sucks and is worthless.

You are amazing.

Your thoughts ain't. Might wanna align that.