Something attractive about a person not obsessed with power and social status

[charlie cho]

I originally posted a question about how social status attracts females. But are we going to deny there is not some kind of powerlessness to a man striving for power? 

You can be famous and be a good person, yet be low status. You can be not famous but have influence over another any time any where. That is social status and power.

Isnt there a kind of power a person has when he doesnt feel the need to get power? Of course, the majority will be attracted to the social power, but isnt there a stronger magnetic attraction to a person like this who doesnt feel the need to control the whole world? Wouldnt this specifically attract certain persons more intimately and more powerfully as opposed to the majority?

I know this can be interpreted as very much philosophical, yet i have to talk about this with you. I know it has been discussed, but this topic has still been on my mind. 

I guess its like comparing a king to a dostoevsky. Majority loves kings but they fall out of love quickly after another king emerges. But people do love the dostoevksy like glue. 

Edited August 8, 2021 by charlie cho

[hamedsf]

yep, we're looking for something great. even we as men are looking for something powerful in women (of course, when they are in a feminine manner not the girl who's powerful in a masculine way acting like spiderman #sorryspideygurlz

we even as men wouldn't even last a few weeks with a girl who is depressed, negative and desperate, let alone this is the case of men!!

CURRENTLY, there have been a few girls who are EXTREMELY happy and ready to settle down with me whereas one or two years ago, this wasn't the case tbh and that might be because I have strengthened myself mentally and physically significantly and taken care of the other basic stuff during one and a half a year, 

so in a nutshell, if you demonstrate powerful behaviors in any way, she'll be yours! 

Edited August 9, 2021 by hamedsf

[Esilda]

@charlie cho doesn't this just equal "not narcissism"? If we're only attracted to narcissism then the world becomes a very shallow place. Not.... Quite at that extreme yet, plus its mostly a societal trend than something with historical permanence.