What the hell is this black pill thing?

[charlie cho]

if that's the meaning of black pill. You must come to korea. Girls and guys are all into black pill. Heck guys are doing make up. Heck guys want to do plastic surgery let alone just women. #1 plastic surgery country in the world. Very proud to be number one in that category as a Korean. 

Edited August 6, 2021 by charlie cho

[Harlen Kelly]

9 hours ago, eaaaeaeae said:

there is a reason people believe in 'black pill' and it's cause it's real. 

That is analogous to saying ''there is a reason why people believe in 'white supremacy' and it's cause it's real'' or ''there is a reason why people believe the earth is flat and it's cause it's real''. 

You severely underestimate the magnitude of your irrationality, which is a common characteristic with extremists.

[Enlightenment]

 

Blackpillers favorite gif

[Growly]

@Federico del pueblo 

The blackpill resonates with people that have been having shitty lives. I got lured in aswell  two years ago because it felt so true and it made so much  sense 

From my experience, people in the community said that the new generation of incels ruined the incel community and it turned into a edgy fest of teens. It was supposed to be for figuring out ways to increase your attractiveness. that was the point of the blackpill to help the ugly people ascend from inceldom(xD). 

There's huge differences between being a blackpiller and a incel. 

Blackpill acknowledges that their faces are the reason why they can't pull numbers, so they go into looksmax communities to look for help, but that also got hijacked by teens now. 

Incels just wait for their death and sometimes visit sanctionsuicide(this got taken down by petition due to people suiciding and suicidal people giving advice on how to suicide without feeling pain) to resonate there better.

 

@Enlightenment I think the most used gif is the one with Sean' o pry that says "Keep on coping you utter subhuman" xDD

Edited August 6, 2021 by Growly

[hamedsf]

Red Pill is great if you find a good source. Avoid MGTOW or Black Pill as much as you can.

run, forest, run! 

[Tudo]

10 hours ago, charlie cho said:

if that's the meaning of black pill. You must come to korea. Girls and guys are all into black pill. Heck guys are doing make up. Heck guys want to do plastic surgery let alone just women. #1 plastic surgery country in the world. Very proud to be number one in that category as a Korean. 

Weird.

[Roy]

7 hours ago, hamedsf said:

Red Pill is great if you find a good source. Avoid MGTOW or Black Pill as much as you can.

run, forest, run! 

Those are all degrees of sharpness of the same blade.

[Arcangelo]

8 hours ago, hamedsf said:

Red Pill is great if you find a good source.

agree

[Tudo]

I think the red pill philosophy is pretty useful tbh. Since you don't get too much into it

[Arcangelo]

1 minute ago, Tudo said:

I think the red pill philosophy is pretty useful tbh. Since you don't get too much into it

I

agree.

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Roy said:

Those are all degrees of sharpness dullness of the same blade.

[Roy]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

[Danioover9000]

@Federico del pueblo

On 06/08/2021 at 0:42 AM, Federico del pueblo said:

Hi everyone,

I've just recently come across this still fairly new black pill community where guys say that nowadays you can only be good with women if you have really good looks (for the most part), and some other cliché things like money and status.

They have YouTube channels where they analyze the looks of different guys, talking about the chin lines, nose bones and so on.

It's pretty much the most negative group of people I've ever found online, still more negative then MGTOW and some extremes within the red pill community.

They go as far as considering/recommending suicide or even mass murder to cause "structural changes" within society, to make women and "chads" understand that there is a price to be paid if you make a big percentage of men have miserable lives.

Now, I'm not concerned about their belief system as in wether or not it is true what they say women want (as I know from experience that it's not how they claim), it's just that I'm still in disbelief, I really didn't think it could get that bad...

What are your thoughts on this tragedy?

 

   Here are my thoughts on what the true nugget is for the Black Pill movement is: their central idea is around the face being the most significant in terms of attraction first. Any other physical qualities, or psychological qualities are second and third, but the facial structure, followed closely by body posture, body language, the vocal quality are what makes a good first impression on the woman. It is so important that in ancient China they have studies on Chinese face reading, along with acupressure and points in the body, and are treated with a lot of importance, despite their many interpretations about such findings, these findings are done through observation of many faces and bodies, and noticing patterns in people that certain actions and events are repeated, and some people have key features in the body and face that happens to bear some consistency with such events. For example, naturally spiritually gifted people tend to have a more prominent inverted triangle between their eyes and have slightly wider upper skull, while more compassionate people with good communication have slightly larger ears, shaped in such a way. Those who are more evil, and have lower empathy, tend to have slightly shorter width, and length of the upper skull. They can also go as far as determine the likely areas of your life you are struggling with, from the unhealthy aspects of parts of your face. For example, if a specialist sees that you're cheeks are slightly sunk in, qnd you have dryness around your forehead and brows, they could estimate, from that, that you are struggling with developing your love and happiness, or you have a lack of it and want ti develop it, but don't know how internally. Dryness around the ears might mean you are struggling to communicate and connect with people.

   It is so important that the face is the first thing, very likely, thar an ego makes connections with to another ego. So important, that as social creatures, while growing up, you mimic facial expressions and body gestures and voices from other members, from family to friends and strangers, in order to survive better, and internalise and approximate what is most likely what the other egoes are thinking and feeling.

   This is the true essence of the Black Pill, the 1% that is true. The most of it is bullshit, and victimhood, and lack of self awareness to correct one's view, while some of it is due to unfair treatment and coping with past trauma. This is Black Pill summarized.

[Federico del pueblo]

I couldn't acces actualized.org the last 2 days or so and now I see that this thread has gained some (unexpected) moment,

Thanks for all the answers!

I don't feel attracted by the black pill anyway but I was simply being curious and kind of "shocked" by the amount of negativity and weirdness of perspectives within that community.

I don't deny that looks are a factor in dating, it is definitely helpful to be good looking, then again you could be a male model and still pretty much suck with women.

So to me it looks like there is a grain of truth in what the black pillers believe but it's still a massive distortion as to how important the different factors are.

[Preety_India]

19 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

... Those are all degrees of sharpness dullness of the same blade.

[Danioover9000]

@Federico del pueblo

6 hours ago, Federico del pueblo said:

I couldn't acces actualized.org the last 2 days or so and now I see that this thread has gained some (unexpected) moment,

Thanks for all the answers!

I don't feel attracted by the black pill anyway but I was simply being curious and kind of "shocked" by the amount of negativity and weirdness of perspectives within that community.

I don't deny that looks are a factor in dating, it is definitely helpful to be good looking, then again you could be a male model and still pretty much suck with women.

So to me it looks like there is a grain of truth in what the black pillers believe but it's still a massive distortion as to how important the different factors are.

  Exactly what I  meant in the above. There's very little substance in Black Pill movement in the modern day, but only a little bit of truth to it. In practice, if you really want to correctly follow the Black Pill movement, align with the more ancient values, like valuing the face and body, taking care of your own face and body, understanding the faces and bodies of others like past ancient masters that took this seriously. Specifically in regards to dating, learn to actually see the person's face and body well, and you can screen more effectively if she's in the mood or not, if she's a match to your dating preferences or not.

P.S. What happened in those two days?

Edited August 8, 2021 by Danioover9000

[Federico del pueblo]

15 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

@Federico del pueblo

P.S. What happened in those two days?

I have no idea what the problem was. When I wanted to open the website it simply wouldn't load (on tablet and phone), so I thought the what was down, but apparently it wasn't if all you guys could post here!?

I think I prefer to just follow my own approach of working on myself, my beliefs and emotions, creating the life that I want and overcoming insecurities that are relevant to dating (approach anxiety etc).

But thank you very much for your informative posts!

[Danioover9000]

@Federico del pueblo

1 hour ago, Federico del pueblo said:

I have no idea what the problem was. When I wanted to open the website it simply wouldn't load (on tablet and phone), so I thought the what was down, but apparently it wasn't if all you guys could post here!?

I think I prefer to just follow my own approach of working on myself, my beliefs and emotions, creating the life that I want and overcoming insecurities that are relevant to dating (approach anxiety etc).

But thank you very much for your informative posts!

   I was active on those two days here, and used both the phone and lap top, so it could have been reception on your end, or something happened in your general area that effected connection. Hopefully it didn't happen while writing a long post. It happened to one of the users here, the site blacked out, then any posts not submitted were lost.

   That's good. As long as you have the intention, and willingness to improve, that's a good start.

   Your welcome, I wish Black Pill wasn't this toxic mess. What it really means to be Black Pill, is to take good care of your face and body, and derive empowerment from that and understanding other's faces and bodies, and not this pity mess of self loathing victimhood cuz we too ugly to mate we have currently.

[Federico del pueblo]

That's what I mean.

It's good to acknowledge the truth for what it is, but if you then only use (certain aspects of) the truth to make yourself a victim, nothing has improved.

I basically aim to acknowledge the facts as they are but then focus on what helps me the most and I choose my beliefs accordingly.