The Future for men: It's kinda fucked

[assx95]

I see only the top 10-20% of men getting laid in the future with 80-90% of young women. The average guy will probably be jacking off to porno or being friend-zoned. The girl next door has 10s of guys in her DMs to choose from. The hotter the girl, the nearly unlimited choice to filter from. And she would obviously choose the most attractive, high status and valuable men and sleep around with them cause she feels like.  How many DMs do average guys get from girls? Zero. We got to build from scratch, have game, money, and everything on point to start getting noticed. 

Those who get that they need to become those men who women want, to sleep with them, it will probably take 5-10 years starting now. And the way money works, not everyone can be high status and rich. So, it's like a zero-sum game for men. Women don't want average guys. Men don't want unattractive women. It's very brutal. Women may show that they are sensitive to a man's emotions, and comfort him when he is vulnerable, but they're likely more attracted to the guys who are not vulnerable. There are outliers but the last 10-20 years of social brainwashing can't reprogram our instincts on what we find attractive. 

I predict that most men are more likely to be virgins, more likely to be considered unattractive by women, more likely to be ignored, more likely to simp, stay single for longer times, pay for sex,  and settle for girls who won't be loyal to them. The top 10-20% of men will have true abundance of women throwing themselves at them. You already see women thirsting for celebs and rappers. It's clear where this generation is heading. 

I predict that more women are likely to have more sex than men starting very young at 18-19, have higher standards, even consider sharing the alpha dog, more likely to expose themselves on Instagram, more likely to divorce, and less likely to stay loyal and have stable relationships. 

We have unleashed true human sexuality or liberated it. And it's brutal. It's not going to go soft on us. What can i say? Become the top 10-30% of men or suffer a bad dating and sex life. There's no way every guy on the planet will have a good sex life or a stable loving relationship. Impossible. 

 

[Preety_India]

You can go for the average girls.

There's a massive abundance of them waiting for a man to love them.

It's like me complaining guys only want the 10 percent hot women.

 

Edited August 2, 2021 by Preety_India

[RendHeaven]

This is the most mind-numbing post I've ever read bro.

100% self-serving bias and falsehood, I can't believe you expended the energy to write all of that.

The average man is fine, dude. I see freakin' everybody and their mom in a relationship around me, it's actually kind of obnoxious.

Stop projecting onto the collective male identity your own personal insecurities.

Commit to learning attraction and becoming a better man!

[assx95]

4 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

This is the most mind-numbing post I've ever read bro.

100% self-serving bias and falsehood, I can't believe you expended the energy to write all of that.

The average man is fine, dude. I see freakin' everybody and their mom in a relationship around me, it's actually kind of obnoxious.

Stop projecting onto the collective male identity your own personal insecurities.

Commit to learning attraction and becoming a better man!

Lol, okay! 

[assx95]

22 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

You can go for the average girls.

There's a massive abundance of them waiting for a man to love them.

 

Yeah, Maybe

[Enlighten]

@assx95

 

The Future Present. lol

but don't be butthurt. You'll get laid,eventually.

[assx95]

27 minutes ago, Enlighten said:

@assx95

 

The Future Present. lol

but don't be butthurt. You'll get laid,eventually.

Lol. Let's grind and do our best! 

[RuthLew]

30 minutes ago, Enlighten said:

@assx95

 

The Future Present. lol

but don't be butthurt. You'll get laid,eventually.

Great answer!

[RendHeaven]

15 minutes ago, assx95 said:

Lol. Let's grind and do our best! 

I can't tell if this is sarcastic?

I hope you meant it 

[myles]

Someone should just relax and go with the flow. If you think a lot, then even more nothing will happen.
 

[Tangerinedream]

What does the top 10-20% of men/women even mean? You are thinking about the top richest/high status men and top attractive women.  They usually date eachother, because they also understand eachother. So unless you want to become a celebrity or hot shot businessman then don’t expect to get in those type of circles.  
 

what could you offer to a top 10% woman? Pointless thinking about those type of girls because they aren’t in your league at all.  The same as a hot ,rich male actor isn’t in my league. 

Why you only think in extremes? you judge that women will only want the top men whilst you yourself speak of only wanting top women.

Maybe stop making such extremes for yourself, you can easily date people who are in your own social circle or on your own level. 

But instead you give yourself an unrealistic extreme to live up to, and then tell yourself it’s because the game is rigged.  

when In reality there are ‘normal’ girls who aren’t supermodels or instagram girls that would be interested in you if you started socialising more and didn’t judge them as not good enuff.

You judge yourself as not being good enough, but then judge that others are not good enough for you
 

[Bando]

Ease up on the redpill/blackpill content man people can smell that stuff a mile away, relax go create an interesting life and develop strong character and go see for yourself is getting laid as hard as you make it out to be.

[coca]

As a guy with high standards for women,I agree with this post. 

At this young age, there's no reason to "shoot for low/average" when you have your whole life ahead of you. 

These are brutal uncomfortable truths that must be accepted and integrated if you want to bang hot girls. 

[coca]

@Bando None of this has anything to do with blackpill/redpill, these are the truths if you want to bang the hottest girls. 

@Tangerinedream Why settle for low/average women, when you have your whole life ahead of you to develop yourself into a high value man and bang hot girls, but hey to each their own. 

@myles If you "relax and go with the flow", your going to end up with a 30 year old ran through beat up roast beef. 

 

[coca]

@Preety_India I see where you are coming from, but this is not exactly the same thing.

Hot girls are just born hot, they dont even have to work out if they dont want to. 

High value men are made, even if they are built upon privilege, they have to go through various trial and error and experiences to become "high value" to women. 

Also, an "average" man, average height, looks, money, status, can still be highly attractive to a woman who is down to settle, as he can still have a strong masculine personality. 

If a man settles with an "average" woman, he's gonna be stuck with declining bad looks.

Edited August 2, 2021 by coca

[sPHINX_3D]

There's some truth to this post. But I feel like you've created this fixed belief that reality is really like that. You don't have to become top 10-30% of the men to get a girl. Understand that females are already wanted when they come out in the world. Their value is inherited, while for a guy, you have to put in work to match the same value. We're equal in value, but not equal in function. So if you have an income, a place of your own, good hygiene, and take care of yourself by improving yourself you should not have a problem getting laid. It doesn't help to fap to porn, being lazy, and complaining about this. You need to talk to the girls you're interested in and eventually, you will get.

[Arcangelo]

5 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

This is the most mind-numbing post I've ever read bro.

100% self-serving bias and falsehood, I can't believe you expended the energy to write all of that.

The average man is fine, dude. I see freakin' everybody and their mom in a relationship around me, it's actually kind of obnoxious.

Stop projecting onto the collective male identity your own personal insecurities.

Commit to learning attraction and becoming a better man!

Gaslighting^

[Arcangelo]

5 hours ago, Enlighten said:

The Future Present.

agree

[Roy]

This place is for self-improvement. Not a place you get to dump garbage doomer thinking, and stir in resentment. I had to lock this thread because it's clear it's utterly useless and unproductive.

In fact let this locking serve as a PSA to everyone on this sub-forum, men and women alike. Y'all need to step up your game. I see way too many arguments and clashing here between the genders, and general unwillingness to understand each other, and it's really affecting the quality of this place. We are all human and two sides of the same coin, so use this place to open your mind and take the opportunity to learn, instead of behaving like elementary school kids.

And for OP and anyone who think like that;