This forum is making me horny - I have to do Nofap.

[Preety_India]

I need some rest.

This forum has been making me too horny.

Lately many posts. 

It's not the women here because they are few.

No las generated by ko

 

 

But some of the threads which are in the dating section.

The way it's writte 

 

I think o djoylf hey getb rest

Edited July 31, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

Ok I kinda dropped dead in my chair while writing the  post above. 

When I woke up and saw what I wrote I was like - wtf 

I think what I wanted to say is that some of the stuff here has begun to make me so horny, it's not good.

 

Edited July 31, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

I need to cut back.

[Preety_India]

So last three days I spent masturbating to porn..

Feel very guilty right now. Not good at all.

I feel extremely ashamed of myself.

Why do I do this ?

Why can't I control myself ?

 

[Preety_India]

Yesterday I spent whole day feeling guilty and upset and feeling red faced in guilt and shame.

It's like I gave into guilty pleasure 

I didn't have this problem last year.

Something about this place that's turning up my horniness. 

I need to tone it down and do some sort of NoFap that guys do so I don't get aroused so much.

 

 

It is distracting me from work seriously.

 

 

 

[Ilan]

You should not feel ashamed for that. I do not know what kind of mental conditioning makes you feel ashamed of « being horny » it is not a bad thing, it is a good thing, it means your body functions very well, it means you’re a human being and your survival mecanisms are good, which is a beautiful thing. I’m not saying that you should always let your survival dictate your life and jump on every men that turn you on but just that it is a normal thing, what you experience. Moreover you’re being authentic talking about it. So there is really zero problem.  Chill out ?

[Preety_India]

@Ilan it's interfering with my work..

Last 3 days I spent thinking that a guy is fucking me and kept watching porn and every time I tried to return back to normal, I felt aroused again and submitted to those desires again 

It was too impulsive. 

Yea it's normal but usually this is not how I am so this tells me that something is making me extra horny than usual. 

I don't watch horny videos.  Last month I didn't watch any porn.

The videos that I generally watch are Cat videos, bird videos or self help or Leo videos.

Past 3 days I felt a strong urge to watch porn. So I did 

Now I don't want to be in this hyper aroused state all the time.

It also makes me sexual towards guys. Not a good strategy. I don't want to feel very sexual around guys. It screws my brain.

 

 

So yea I'm doing noFap and control all this sudden error in my sexual programming.

 

Won't do any masturbation today. 

Day 1.

I guess I will be able to handle this.

I should not read any guy Saying sexy  things.

 

Full control mode.

 

 

[Preety_India]

10 minutes ago, Ilan said:

You should not feel ashamed for that. I do not know what kind of mental conditioning makes you feel ashamed of « being horny » it is not a bad thing, it is a good thing, it means your body functions very well, it means you’re a human being and your survival mecanisms are good, which is a beautiful thing. I’m not saying that you should always let your survival dictate your life and jump on every men that turn you on but just that it is a normal thing, what you experience. Moreover you’re being authentic talking about it. So there is really zero problem.  Chill out ?

I know I should not feel ashamed. Easier said than done.

[Ilan]

 

18 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@Ilan it's interfering with my work..

Last 3 days I spent thinking that a guy is fucking me and kept watching porn and every time I tried to return back to normal, I felt aroused again and submitted to those desires again 

It was too impulsive. 

Yea it's normal but usually this is not how I am so this tells me that something is making me extra horny than usual. 

I don't watch horny videos.  Last month I didn't watch any porn.

The videos that I generally watch are Cat videos, bird videos or self help or Leo videos.

Past 3 days I felt a strong urge to watch porn. So I did 

Now I don't want to be in this hyper aroused state all the time.

It also makes me sexual towards guys. Not a good strategy. I don't want to feel very sexual around guys. It screws my brain.

 

 

So yea I'm doing noFap and control all this sudden error in my sexual programming.

 

Won't do any masturbation today. 

Day 1.

I guess I will be able to handle this.

I should not read any guy Saying sexy  things.

 

Full control mode.

 

 

Nice challenge ! Good luck for this ! Let me know how much time you last !  How much time can you allow this discomfort in yourself! That is true spirituality you are doing 

[Preety_India]

Note to myself-

Don't talk to following guys

• Don't talk to guys who are too sexy
• Don't react when a guy smiles
• Don't respond to flirty text messages
• Don't read trigger words (aka sexy phrases, immediately turn away when you read those, don't let it enter the brain)
• Guys usually try hard to place their dick in your head. Resist their efforts. 
• A few days back I received a flirty text. Hmm. And I responded to it after which I felt aroused. Not good. 
• Don't read hardcore stuff that guys write. This is my major turn on. I need to turn it off. Don't read "it."
• Don't talk to specific people who turn me on.
• Talk to guys who say things in non sexual manner.
• If a guy flirts too much, cut him off the list. He is major culprit behind my horniness.
• Keep it to platonic non sexual conversations with men and only discuss relevant stuff. 
• Talk to guys in funny cute ways without making it horny. 
• Keep away from horny guys. Horny guys make me more horny. Don't be around horny guys.

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

The best strategy is to avoid horny men.

 

And then I won't feel so aroused.

 

[kag101]

20 hours ago, Preety_India said:

Don't talk to following guys

• Don't talk to guys who are too sexy
• Don't react when a guy smiles
• Don't respond to flirty text messages
• Don't read trigger words (aka sexy phrases, immediately turn away when you read those, don't let it enter the brain)
• Guys usually try hard to place their dick in your head. Resist their efforts. 
• A few days back I received a flirty text. Hmm. And I responded to it after which I felt aroused. Not good. 
• Don't read hardcore stuff that guys write. This is my major turn on. I need to turn it off. Don't read "it."
• Don't talk to specific people who turn me on.
• Talk to guys who say things in non sexual manner.
• If a guy flirts too much, cut him off the list. He is major culprit behind my horniness.
• Keep it to platonic non sexual conversations with men and only discuss relevant stuff. 
• Talk to guys in funny cute ways without making it horny. 
• Keep away from horny guys. Horny guys make me more horny. Don't be around horny guys.

I think this approach of heavy repression towards sexuality is counterproductive. It's one of those things which the bigger the repression, the bigger the obsession. 

Do you have an active sex life?

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, kag101 said:

Do you have an active sex life?

I'm looking for a relationship. A good guy. I recently broke up. 

 

[Preety_India]

Today I did not masturbate.

Success for today.

. tomorrow let's see

 

 

Good control.