So every time I talk to a guy, if he says anything sexual or sexual innuendos, I get turned on and get horny very quickly. Like feminine sexual submission. But I hate it later that i felt sexual. I regret it and feel ashamed. I want to talk to a guy without feeling overwhelmed by sexual thoughts. Their flirting has an intense impact on me. I quickly get arousal. Of course the guy can sense this and he feels very empowered and I feel very defeated.  What are some suggestions and strategies that I can use while conversing with a guy that will prevent me from getting horny and distract me from it. I don't want to submit so easily.