This Is Why You Can't Let Go...

[theinevitableandi]

So this whole idea of letting it go seems like an illusion.  You can only let go of what is already gone , so in a sense there is nothing to let go of . So it's more of acceptance. Accepting that you have no control and cannot hold on or let go . They seem like opposites of the same pole. Even acceptance looks illusory because there is nothing to accept there is just Truth. You cannot add or subtract from truth ,TRUTH IS before we spin any stories about it . 

It's like Desire.  Fulfilling desires always takes place in the future so it does not allow you to be (happy) now.  So if you want to be happy , you are unable to be happy because happiness must come later , in the future after you get or accomplish what you want. And if you are unhappy you desire to stop this unhappiness . Desire is pretty much wanting  and as always our wants are not here now so we are suffering until we get our wants/desires. Wanting and not wanting are really two sides of the same coin . So you could want  someone in your life and you can also want to NOT want a person in your life. The key to this is not to desire. But then immediately you will see that you desire not to desire  lollers! 

 

Do you see it? ... Is this easy to see? or just nonsense monkey chatter @Leo Gura