Posted July 21, 2021 8 minutes ago, thisintegrated said: Nope. Don't expect I will in this lifetime. Probably would be nice, but unlikely to ever happen. Can't do that kinda stuff online. Go out. Talk to women. Have a girlfriend. Spend beautiful moments with her. What's stopping this from happening ? Are you shy/socially awkward/rejected a lot/ had a broken heart? There's always a reason in the background why a certain desire is not being fulfilled. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Just now, Willie said: Do you really want to want to be with men, or are you lashing out because of prior experiences with women? He is probably just bad with women. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Just now, Preety_India said: Go out. Talk to women. Have a girlfriend. Spend beautiful moments with her. What's stopping this from happening ? How does one "spend beautiful moments" with someone? The only way I interact with people is through conversation, and women rarely have real hobbies or interest in intellectual topics. Walking/hiking/etc. isn't really an activity, it's just talking, and has the same problem. And I'm kind of seriously ill, and can't "go out", even without lockdowns. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 2 minutes ago, thisintegrated said: How does one "spend beautiful moments" with someone? The only way I interact with people is through conversation, and women rarely have real hobbies or interest in intellectual topics. Walking/hiking/etc. isn't really an activity, it's just talking, and has the same problem. And I'm kind of seriously ill, and can't "go out", even without lockdowns. I'm sorry to know that. I'm trying to help but I guess I can't do much here. I hope you find peace and happiness in life. Xoxo INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 1 hour ago, thisintegrated said: It would be convenient AF if I wasn't attracted to women. hahahah yeah right, gay people's lives are very convenient (sarcasm) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 22, 2021 (edited) 19 minutes ago, thisintegrated said: How does one "spend beautiful moments" with someone? The only way I interact with people is through conversation, and women rarely have real hobbies or interest in intellectual topics. Walking/hiking/etc. isn't really an activity, it's just talking, and has the same problem. And I'm kind of seriously ill, and can't "go out", even without lockdowns. Some of the best most easy going conversations I've had were with women. There is great depth to a woman if you hold space for her and allow her to feel comfortable to be herself. But, the idea is to hold no intent towards her except remaining present and allowing whatever happens, happen. Women can tell, or at least may have an idea of, when a man is just talking to her for devious reasons. It's not that she has no hobbies or isn't intellectual it's that she doesn't feel comfortable enough to open up about these things to you. You underestimate women, just as I see women on here underestimate men. Walking/hiking and all of that jazz can be some of the greatest times to form a bound with a woman(or really anyone). Women tend to be more expressive and free when out in nature. This allows them to be more receptive and more emotive. They will remember and cherish the the small memories you can create while on these walks. Men who can make the small moments some of the best moments is a very valuable trait to a female. Even if it's just for friendship, there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone. Just hearing the female perspective is pretty interesting in itself. But, this can be triggering to some men. Of course the male perspective can be triggering to females as well. But if you really think they are poor conversationalists, then you are poor listener. Edited July 22, 2021 by Nos7algiK Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 22, 2021 @thisintegrated 1 hour ago, thisintegrated said: I thought this would be obvious. There's not a single advantage to being straight, yet every advantage to being gay. Fuck that "proving you're assertive and brave, yet kind and gentle, but dominant and confident, yet sensitive and emotional" shit. Not worth it. I ain't jumping through anyone's hoops, not for any reason. Oh and.. fuck THIS shit. @Leo Gura LMAO!? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 22, 2021 (edited) There’s porn hypnosis that are supposed to turn you gay too?? They keep showing like a bunch of pics of dicks and ask you to repeat that you crave cock HAHAHA There’s also ones that turn you straight if you’re gay but I saw a comment under one of those of a dude who said “I got so brainwashed with the gay ones I can’t be straight anymore” Honestly the human mind is so fucked up? And I have heard accounts of people who just NATURALLY changed from gay to straight or straight to gay... I don’t know man, just tell yourself the truth, don’t try to change. You’d be better off learning communicating with women than changing your sexuality open your heart chakra so you can balance that “brave and manly yet caring and gentle” duality that seems impossible to be integrated Edited July 22, 2021 by blankisomeone Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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