I feel bad about watching porn

[Hello from Russia]

@Leo Gura can you tell us some secrets on how you managed to make her orgasm 10-15 times?

I only was able to make it to 4-5 mark but on the other hand, I never left my girl without giving her at least 1-2 orgasms, which I feel very good about  consistency wise (had like 400+ acts) . Most folks that I see constantly leave girls without any orgasms which I think is very lame, especially considering how easy fingering is in that domain

[Leo Gura]

@Hello from Russia Well, she has to be open to it. Many girls are too sexually closed. You have to open her up emotionally.

The other problem is that it can simply be too physically taxing on you as the guy. So realistically you don't need so many orgasms.

[Matt Skinner]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I've never had that problem.

The hotter the girl the faster you will cum. Only natural.

Girls cum a lot more with high value guys too. If you develop your value really high, she'll be cumming for you like crazy.

Right, right , makes sense. All the more reason for me to get serious about pickup/dating skillz!

I think that process will likely cut through a lot of the neurotic wiring holding me back from fully enjoying sex.

Thanks for you input Leo ?? I really appreciate it.

Edited July 2, 2021 by Matt Skinner

[Yali]

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

high value guys

How do you define "high value"?

 

[Karmadhi]

@Yali I would be curious to know too. High value in terms of being sexually attractive especially.

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Yali said:

How do you define "high value"?

Learn attraction theory.

High value is relative to whatever women are naturally attracted to because it enhances their survival.

The opposite of a creepy, needy, scrub.

[Yali]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Learn attraction theory.

 

Chads are born, not made

[Vynce]

@Yali

4 hours ago, Yali said:

Chads are born, not made

Thats some excellent victim mentality. Value is so dependent on behaivor and charisma, from a girls perspective. Think of how women feel attracted to funny guys. Men devalue that too easily. And even when it comes to the looks, you can certainly do more than you believe. Posture, muscle growth, good skin (healthy, nutrient dense food) are all just examples how you can increase you "chad-ness". 

The ultimate attractor is when you feel unconditionally good about yourself and naturally radiate this feeling into the world. 

[Javfly33]

9 hours ago, Yali said:

Chads are born, not made

Lol.

You are making an act.

Want to keep making the act of being a loser simp? Go ahead, But know that is an act.

You run the Risk of wasting a lot of time and even fucking Up your life thinking that way. 

 

[herghly]

Read models by markmanson.

[Leo Gura]

10 hours ago, Yali said:

Chads are born, not made

Low value guys are made, not born.

[Karmadhi]

@Leo Gura Is arrogance, cockyness and selfishness considered high value?

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Karmadhi said:

@Leo Gura Is arrogance, cockyness and selfishness considered high value?

Depends on how you define those terms. But generally yes as it tends to correlate to other things important for a woman's survival.

[Karmadhi]

@Leo Gura So if i want to become attractive to girls i need to reduce my integrity and self actualization? Selfishness, arrogance and cockyness show juvenile, insecure and low consciousness behavior.

When i talk to girls i act funny self secure positive uplifting independent and playful. I am also humble, down to earth and try to lead in a positive healthy way. If i am confident in myselt i see no reason to act arrogant, arrogance to see shows insecurity and shallow “confidence”. It is extremly unatural to me. Same with cockyness. You can lead without being cocky.

Is this behaviour considered high value?

[Nahm]

An eye opening article no one will read. 

When cynicism has been mastered, ‘turn the page’. 

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Karmadhi said:

@Leo Gura So if i want to become attractive to girls i need to reduce my integrity and self actualization? Selfishness, arrogance and cockyness show juvenile, insecure and low consciousness behavior.

Strawman much?

2 hours ago, Karmadhi said:

When i talk to girls i act funny self secure positive uplifting independent and playful. I am also humble, down to earth and try to lead in a positive healthy way. If i am confident in myself...

If you truly were all these things you would not have problems getting girls.

[Karmadhi]

@Leo Gura Actually you can be those things and still not get girls. What i lack which i did not write there is flirty, sexual vibe, sexual everything. You can be playful and make jokes without doing anything sexual which is my problem. I make girls laugh and create playful illogical vibes but no wettnes from the girl :'( .   I also do not make legit moves, i may lead in terms of picking places to meet, suggesting meetings and the small "come here" kind of stuff, some touching etc  but i never go for strong sexual movements.

So yeah you can have those things i wrote and not get girls

8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Strawman much?

I have a small bias because the people i have met in my life that had those traits did more devilry than the rest of people i knew. May be just me strawmaning for sure, who knows.

[diamondpenguin]

Those girls, want a charming self-loving man who has a gorgeous penis. Kinda like Leo, hes a wizardous, passionate, charismatic man, and I bet you he does have beautiful a penis. That's the thing though, I know a lot of women, and they are not as worried about dick size as they are about what you can do with it. See, women are more emotional than visual. They care what you can do with your dick, rather than how big it is. A guy with a 10 inch cock who cant do anything with it, is worthless compared to a dude with a 4 inch cock who is a master of the artform. 

Edited July 3, 2021 by diamondpenguin

[Kshantivadin]

9 hours ago, diamondpenguin said:

Kinda like Leo, hes a wizardous, passionate, charismatic man, and I bet you he does have beautiful a penis.

 

[SgtPepper]

Embrace sexual energy with love and consciousness!

Edited July 4, 2021 by SgtPepper