All Day I Dream About Sex

[ivankiss]

@DIDego Wait.. Are you suggesting I should marry a girl and make a child with her so I could fuck 24/7, 9 months later? Either that, or I'm smoking some weird shit tonight 

[Shin]

19 minutes ago, ivankiss said:

@DIDego Wait.. Are you suggesting I should marry a girl and make a child with her so I could fuck 24/7, 9 months later? Either that, or I'm smoking some weird shit tonight 

I hope it's that, I thought about something way worse

Time to go to bed

[ivankiss]

@Shin Good night you nasty

[B222]

I’d love to be in your position with girls. Too many excuses to be comfortable held me back in recent years while dealing with personal shit but isolation gives opportunity to learn skills in other areas. I’ll have girls hanging off me when I get out of this funk, what matters is the deeper purpose. You clearly have the traits to crush in whatever field you choose. Go deep into your why and build habits balanced between the love for women and the drive for success. I’m behind in one and getting ahead in the other. I’ve experienced both to a degree but life works in mad ways. Fuck incel forums. Where the birds at??

[ivankiss]

48 minutes ago, B222 said:

I’d love to be in your position with girls. 

Not gonna lie, it is a potentially very good position. I always kinda knew my way around women. I speak their language. But there are some things that are bugging me. I'm not reaching my full potential as of now. That's what I'm trying to work out.

48 minutes ago, B222 said:

isolation gives opportunity to learn skills in other areas. 

Very true. I'm familiar with solitude. But I'd like to contrast the peace and quite I acquired with some consistent, juicy action. You know... balance n stuff.

48 minutes ago, B222 said:

You clearly have the traits to crush in whatever field you choose. Go deep into your why and build habits balanced between the love for women and the drive for success. I’m behind in one and getting ahead in the other. 

I think we all have those traits. We can totally crush it in whatever it is that we love to do.

Glad you enjoy doing your stuff. You got my thumbs up.

I like juggling and multitasking. Also enjoy climbing up and down the ladder. It's very fun and I'm learning at lightning speed. Something tells me women kinda notice that. I catch their looks.

Edited June 16, 2021 by ivankiss

[Heart of Space]

You post like I did when I was 16.  You look like 45 in your avatar.  

Here's some helpful advice.  Perhaps emotionally mature yourself beyond the age of 15.  

Seriously, I've had a million guys tell me carbon copy versions of your original post about themselves.  It's a classic case of profound emotional immaturity and narcissism.  I'm definitely not hating on you by the way, just calling it as I see it.  I hate to pick on you on the internet, but man you are a bad case of the man child.  Unless you are actually a child.   

Edited June 16, 2021 by Heart of Space

[MatteO22]

4 hours ago, Heart of Space said:

You post like I did when I was 16.  You look like 45 in your avatar.  

Here's some helpful advice.  Perhaps emotionally mature yourself beyond the age of 15.  

Seriously, I've had a million guys tell me carbon copy versions of your original post about themselves.  It's a classic case of profound emotional immaturity and narcissism.  I'm definitely not hating on you by the way, just calling it as I see it.  I hate to pick on you on the internet, but man you are a bad case of the man child.  Unless you are actually a child.   

This seems wildly inaccurate, inappropriate and uncalled for. @ivankiss asked for genuine advice with self-awareness with his issues. I think he’s entitled to that, and doesn’t need to be bashed for desiring to better and improve himself.

 

By the way what he posted has nothing to do with narcissism. Narcissists (who are not absent on this forum) have no capacity for self awareness like he demonstrates. 

[ivankiss]

@Heart of Space We been here before...

I cannot value or respect your opinion, sorry. You obviously have no idea what you're talking about. Let alone what's going on with me. 

@MatteO22 Thanks 

[MatteO22]

@ivankiss gotcha bro

[AtheisticNonduality]

When you're hungry, eat a nice meal. When you are dehydrated, drink a nice glass of ice water. When you get your current feeling, have the best most testicle-draining orgasm.

[ivankiss]

@Husseinisdoingfine Thanks, will check!

@AtheisticNonduality Haha, true dat. Had that covered already. This girl I'm seeing made cum like a king. It's been a while since I last had sex this good...

It's just that we're not hanging out too often. And I'm hungry every 2 hours 

[B222]

@ivankiss

What helped you with confidence/attraction? Guess its something you developed early.

Full potential with girls or LP? 

Yea action is mega important, I’m aware of this and what I need to fix. I need to pick up the volume, it’s inevitable. No stress.

Edited June 16, 2021 by B222

[Shin]

Become a Pornstar.

Problem solved.

 

[ivankiss]

@B222 It just comes down to experience.

I remember fooling around with girls from the age of 7. And I never really stopped. I always had some female company, one way or the other. I also had 3 semi-long relationships. 9 years of experience in that field. That's way more than most guys in their late twenties have - I'd say.

This last relationship was the ultimate lesson. It feels like it lasted 20 years, not 4. It swallowed me whole, chewed me and spat me out. I can still hear the echoes.

Lp or girls - you ask? If I had to choose only one... Lp - for sure. I could live without pussy - I guess - but not without music.

I actually have a very simple plan. I narrowed down everything I want from life in this chapter to 3 things. A trinity. I'm kinda locked in and have that tunnel vision these days..

Money. Music. Sex.

That's what I'm after now. Pretty much in that exact order, too. Simple and clear. No bs. 

@Shin I already have a few private films of mine - if you're interested 

No, but seriously. I'm sure this is just a phase. I'll get it out of my system and things will stabilize, inevitably.

[B222]

Doesn’t sound like you could live without pussy and why would you if it’s on tap ? ha 

Good luck with the music man! Well there is no luck if you work smart. Crush.

[RickyFitts]

I'm all too familiar with extreme horniness myself, but being present with these feelings has been a really eye-opening experience at times - what I've found in my own experience is that there's a desire for much deeper connection on an emotional level underneath the surface desire to fuck someone's brains out. But this deeper desire can so easily go under the radar, particularly in us testosterone-fuelled men.

This is all subjective, though, and it might be different for you. My advice would be to sit with the sexual desire when it arises (um, so to speak ), and notice what else is going on within you that you might not have noticed previously.

Edited June 17, 2021 by RickyFitts

[knakoo]

On 15/06/2021 at 3:46 PM, ivankiss said:

God damn it.

This is getting ridiculous now.

A while ago I made a thread saying how I wanted to take a break from sex until I fell in love with someone again.

Well; that did not work out really.

I ended up craving sex bad.

Since then; I had two partners. FWB's - if you will. The first one was pretty good, the second was (and still is) nearly perfect. But not as reliable.

I think I'm not having sex as frequently as I sense the urge to. Like; maybe once or twice a week, only. Sonetimes even a month. And I could do it at least twice a day.

It's getting increasingly difficult to navigate and/or transform all this sexual energy.

I feel like a horny 15yr old again. Pretty much all the time. It started seriously affecting my thinking patterns. My behaviour, mood, etc.

I know sexual energy is creative energy. And not being creative enough might be what's bugging me. But still; this shit is hard. I'm working seasonally in a coffee shop. All I see is ass n titties all day long. People say I'm good looking and charismatic. So let's assume that's true... I'm also a natural flirt. I flirt with pretty much every woman at my job. It's awesome. But on the other hand; it only makes me want pussy more.

I am aligned with my purpose. I work hard on several areas of life. I don't want this shit to hold me back. But it almost seems as if I cannot truly move forward without letting this out of my system. Fucking it away.

What do you guys think? Anyone went through something similar here? Particularly; in the 'post-awakening' stages - if you know what I mean. I still don't want a full blown relationship. Should I just find a more reliable FWB? Or should I use some methods to transcend this?

Would appreciate your thoughts and views.

Here's a cool and very relevant song for ya sexy people:

https://youtu.be/7Quj_-amMPE

 

If you are good looking, charismatic and you do game, you should be able to have many FWB (like 5-10 easily) and have as much sex as you want. These relationships can last many years and be really fulfilling beyond just the sex. Why don't you ?

I was puzzled as well when Leo said he did not have a lot of sex after doing game for many years, especially being in his position. Maybe it's an ethical issue for him.

[ivankiss]

@B222 Thanks! Right back at ya!

@RickyFitts Good advice. Thanks.

Been sitting a lot with it. As I said; I can rise above it and transcend the urge temporarily. But it keeps coming back.

Thing is; I'm just very used to having sex. I never really took a break, ever since I lost my virginity. I had consistent partners and my needs were pretty much always met. This is the first year that I'm not having sex consistently. So yeah, it's obviously a shock to my system. I'm sure I'm dealing with a certain level of addiction. But it's not too bad. I'm also just a 27yr old dude, after all. When if not now? 

@knakoo Yeah, I've been thinking about that... Dunno. I'm just not used to having multiple partners at the same time. I was always focused on one girl at a time. Even if she was just a fuck buddy. 

Might try it out. But I'd much rather have one or max two reliable girls. Feels more natural to me. 10 could be either epic or a disaster 

 

[RickyFitts]

3 hours ago, ivankiss said:

Been sitting a lot with it. As I said; I can rise above it and transcend the urge temporarily. But it keeps coming back.

Thing is; I'm just very used to having sex. I never really took a break, ever since I lost my virginity. I had consistent partners and my needs were pretty much always met. This is the first year that I'm not having sex consistently. So yeah, it's obviously a shock to my system. I'm sure I'm dealing with a certain level of addiction. But it's not too bad. I'm also just a 27yr old dude, after all. When if not now? 

Sure, dude, if it's something you still enjoy then by all means go for it 

[knakoo]

4 hours ago, ivankiss said:

 

@knakoo Yeah, I've been thinking about that... Dunno. I'm just not used to having multiple partners at the same time. I was always focused on one girl at a time. Even if she was just a fuck buddy. 

Might try it out. But I'd much rather have one or max two reliable girls. Feels more natural to me. 10 could be either epic or a disaster 

 

So do you actually do "pick up" ? If you start seeing 1 or 2 girls and it is not serious, you stop approaching girls and flirting ? Why ?

If you see many girls, there will be some that you see like once a week (or more) and other once every month or every few months (some may not live in the same city). It is not hard to manage at all.

Why would you prefer one or 2 max ? Why many would it be a disaster ?