One of the most important thing to understand about women

[bejapuskas]

My friend was assaulted by her ex a few days ago. They broke up after a year long relationship, she got over it. One day he came to her house drunk with some other friend, he told her he wants to have some private conversation. Then when they were alone, he started kissing, then groping breasts, trying to rub and finger too. She was helpless because he completely overpowered her and even slapped her when she resisted. He said something like "why do we need to behave like typical exes". Then the other friend came and they looked weird so the friend suspected they were sad about the breakup. He asked the guy why, he lied and said that he started liking somebody else, which was not true, he just wanted to have sex and cheated on the girl three times. After that she confronted him on a phone call where he said something like "I just wanted to fuck you and I wanted to make you feel bad for not giving me, so that you would regret". As you might know, this girl was already traumatized since she had such a low self-esteem which made her not leave him after two instances of cheating. Then she got groped without consent and denied so many things she knew to be true. Some days later she decided to speak up about her story on instagram where people supported her. Her family however forced her to delete the post, because "they dont want to have anything in common with the case and the guy". Another victim silenced. If you wanna know about the guy, he was a typical nice guy who posted so much about human rights on social media, advocated for others and then did this. 

[RendHeaven]

1 hour ago, bejapuskas said:

If you wanna know about the guy, he was a typical nice guy who posted so much about human rights on social media, advocated for others and then did this. 

[Etherial Cat]

2 hours ago, bejapuskas said:

 If you wanna know about the guy, he was a typical nice guy who posted so much about human rights on social media, advocated for others and then did this. 

It reminds me of a stage Green version of priest doing disgusting things within the Church.

People who identify as being "good" have potentially a huge shadow. 

[bejapuskas]

@eaaaeaeae  Would you like to live in a society where you have to stay inside at night while others can freely move around without feeling any fear of being raped? Do you think not educating people about consent, not trying to understand their emotional needs, their views of reality while also trying to put a curfew on half of the population would be a fair policy? Don't you think it is worth to have a vision of a better future and act to actualize it? We are not erradicating rape by having discussions here, but still, we can prevent some rape and educate some people at least, I consider that serious personal development.

[Preety_India]

@Marcel I agree with you. 

 

[bejapuskas]

@Marcel  People with intrusive thoughts are actually very unlikely to do anything