Anybody who's MBTI an ENTJ (or anybody similar for instance INTJ or ENTP)

[charlie cho]

I'm just curious to know how you people deal with others. Many assumptions people can make about ENTJs

• We have no problem getting toxic people out of our lives
• We don't mind being the bad guy to do the right thing
• We have a tendency to want to dominate in groups
• Many label ENTJs as heartless, but in reality they don't know what really motivates us underneath. It's not generally something "evil" as they like to think.
• Most people like to put us in leadership positions
• We are not too detail oriented. We like to deal with the big picture rather

Anyways, how are you people. 

 

[Flyboy]

You must be extremely conscious of how you can run people over with your logic.  I have found developing my feminine side / empathy / listening skills to be extremely important to balance this weakness.

And you'd be surprised, when you let go of dependence on logic alone, the world gets a lot more colorful and rich.

[soos_mite_ah]

I think the last time I took the MBTI test I was an ENTJ but I will say that my T function and my E function were relatively weak. I consider myself more of an ambivert rather than an extrovert and I like to think have a pretty good integration of matters of the head and heart. 

12 minutes ago, charlie cho said:

• We have no problem getting toxic people out of our lives Yes this is true for me. I have no problem with being alone and therefore have no problem with letting go of people who aren't good for me. I often feel that is more so reflective of how I've developed as a person, how I learned to have better boundaries, and how I've decided to mind my own business and focus on my own life more. 
• We don't mind being the bad guy to do the right thing Yes pretty spot on. 
• We have a tendency to want to dominate in groups Not at all. I find myself wanting to be more collaborative rather than dominate. Sometimes I come off as having more leader like qualities but it isn't intentional or wrapped in a desire of having people under me.  
• Many label ENTJs as heartless, but in reality they don't know what really motivates us underneath. It's not generally something "evil" as they like to think. Maybe this is because I have a weak T function but I did have people in the past not be able to see a heart underneath but that was more due to a lack of context of what my goals were. Most of the time I come of rather warm. 
• Most people like to put us in leadership positions Yeah I have had this happen to me. I've had people in my life assume that I have my life together simply the way that I carry myself and that I know how to lead a group when in reality that isn't the case and internally I'm just as clueless and confused as everyone else. 
• We are not too detail oriented. We like to deal with the big picture rather Yes this resonates but I will say that even though I care about the big picture rather than the details, there is a part of me that likes to be thorough to produce the best, most complete product possible.