i finally got my first official exclusive gf

[Shin]

If it's not already done, learn how to make a girl squirt (with the Leo video).
It's gonna be fun if she can open herself up and trust you.

Maybe wait a month before doing it though.

It's gonna be AMAZING

Hehehe

[SageModeAustin]

@Shin thats for if you've had sex a bunch of times we not there yet ;p

[Roy]

Great to hear! Just enjoy it day to day, and don't get too ahead of yourself by worrying long term and planning too hard.

Focus on the process of getting to know her and treating her well.

[Shin]

9 hours ago, SageModeAustin said:

@Shin thats for if you've had sex a bunch of times we not there yet ;p

What you can do until then (and beyond ofc), is to not rush intercourse.

Take all the time you need to lick and kiss her everywhere very slowly before sex.

From the extremety of the body to the finally arrive to her vagina.

She will get on fire if you do that lol

Edited June 5, 2021 by Shin

[flowboy]

On 04/06/2021 at 4:57 AM, SageModeAustin said:

@integral yeah but how

Life purpose! As a man, you have to have something that you devote your life to that isn't her.

In fact, it has to be more important to you than her.

If you don't have that, that means that without her you'd be a lost boy. And she knows that, and that will cause her to slowly lose attraction, and you to act needy.

I'm surprised no one's mentioned this.

Should be common sense especially in these circles.

Edited June 5, 2021 by flowboy

[Michael569]

3 hours ago, flowboy said:

Life purpose! As a man, you have to have something that you devote your life to that isn't her.

In fact, it has to be more important to you than her.

This!!!

[SageModeAustin]

@Shin yes ;D agreed mate

[SgtPepper]

You transcend it by fearing so much that you cannot stand it and just accept a version of yourself where it could happen, and you move on and be happy. 

that's the only way I have transcended apprehension. 

[SageModeAustin]

@flowboy I have goals and things I want to do that I work towards everyday but I wouldn’t say it’s my “LIFE PURPOSE”

[hyruga]

Congratulations.  Time to save up for marriage.

[Harlen Kelly]

@hyruga So you marry the first chick you are able to have sex with? 

[Andrew John]

On 03/06/2021 at 7:31 PM, SageModeAustin said:

we started off as friends and now were dating. its going great. shes a gemini and ima  libra , were extremely compatible with a few differences, but overrall its going too good to be true. how do i transcend fear of losing it. rn my solution is to apply self love and live from my heart 

You need to understand what fear is and then transcend it. But easier said than done. 
 

Leo’s videos on fear are probably as good as your going to get.

[Peter Miklis]

@Andrew John Should all fear be transcended? It is what keeps us all alive after all.

[MatteO22]

7 hours ago, Peter Miklis said:

@Andrew John Should all fear be transcended? It is what keeps us all alive after all.

You don’t need fear to breathe, eat, drink and sleep.

 

You also don’t need fear to know better than to go hug a mass murderer or jump off a cliff

Consciousness has better ability to keep us alive than fear, fear is what happens when consciousness is dormant and the nervous system needs to overcompensate to keep life going, and so it invents and embodies fear. 

[flowboy]

On 11/06/2021 at 2:44 AM, SageModeAustin said:

@flowboy I have goals and things I want to do that I work towards everyday but I wouldn’t say it’s my “LIFE PURPOSE”

I would suggest that you make them more important then. Do some visioning and really work out the details of where you are going 1, 5 and 10 years from now. If you are not excited, work on it every day and change it until it excites you.

This will make you non-needy like nothing else.