Do males experience sexual anxiety?

[integral]

5 hours ago, kray said:

This is admirable. If I don't ejaculate for a week, and find myself around women, I end up getting REALLY turned on from just the legs of a woman 

lol i know what you mean. What i think is happening is the sexual energy is naturally being transmuted to other things. Maybe this comes from not needing a woman or a relationship. Being independent and comfortable single. Being single and not realizing your single, is when you've got it. Having a passion and interests that consume that energy. 

Edited June 5, 2021 by integral

[Preety_India]

3 hours ago, integral said:

lol i know what you mean. What i think is happening is the sexual energy is naturally being transmuted to other things. Maybe this comes from not needing a woman or a relationship. Being independent and comfortable single. Being single and not realizing your single, is when you've got it. Having a passion and interests that consume that energy. 

That's good for you.. How is it going so far? 

You seem to be making tremendous progress. Would love to know more. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

4 hours ago, Roy said:

But yea there are barely any incel women because it's so much easier to get sex as a woman, there is always going to be some guy who is willing to bone.

I don't believe this is the real explanation or causation. Women don't reject just because they get sex so easily. Would women be any different if it was harder to get sex. Nope. Women just don't feel the way men do and availability and non availability has nothing to do with it. In fact it's harder for women to get high quality men, if they only wanted sex then they would have gone along with whoever, but that's not the case, so this means biologically women aren't necessarily thinking only about sex and not as frequently as men and also this is not because they can get sex easily, they just don't want it to be this easy. Its well implied by the nature of how men and women coexist and how we don't have incel groups for women, it's evident that a woman's agenda is not about having only sex or having too much sex, their agenda is to create quality relationships, that's why you have the highest number of female prostitutes, but very few male prostitutes, women aren't sexually as desperate and so they experience much lesser anxiety or sexual agitation than men, this is just biological and hormone related, obviously nature can't afford to make a woman sexually aggressive, it wouldn't fit her agenda because most women have a limited reproductive span, it would be unwise for a woman to constantly be in heat, with a few children, her reproductive energy immediately depletes and so the drive for sex is really not biologically driven anymore, biologically a woman can't afford to be hyper sexual or aggressively sexual because she has to conserve her limited potential when it comes to sex and reproduction and family making, she won't be making a hundred families, so the only one family she is hoping to create should turn out successful and reliant, so she puts all her energy into the man she is with to make it work with the aspirations that it would last a lifetime. This means her sexual agenda is very different from that of a man who loves spreading as many seeds as he can and his sexual Agenda is more about maximizing his sexual worth, whereas hers is of maximizing sustainability with a high value male, that's why women read books on how to keep a husband/marriage whereas men read books on how to get more women. So the whole sexual anxiety and frustration part is very much applicable to men and this is not a social thing, but is driven biologically. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Peter Miklis there is no misconception. I already know that. My point though was that men are more sexually anxious than women will ever be. The difference in proportion is huge and the difference is biological. No amount of social conditioning can inhibit natural instincts to a great degree. It is impossible to think that a woman's behavior is all socially regulated, much of the behaviors of both men and women has a lot to do with biology, and as seen in nature, females only want sex during a limited period of time when they're in heat, and males seem to experience much more sexual anxiety and aggression and this translates for humans as well.