Sexual Innocence

[Preety_India]

Isn't there something called sexual Innocence like preserving oneself for the  true soulmate or lover and allow time for such a person to enter your life? 

But today's environment encourages people to engage in porn, or be experimental with sex, or focus solely on sex or have too much sex. 

Isn't there something like sexual Innocence that would kinda disappear if people engaged too much in sex, especially the kind of sex that is devoid of deep emotional connections and romantic chemistry. That is such dry sex in my opinion 

 

I would rather want deeper emotional bonding and deep romantic feelings to accompany the occasion of sexual involvement. 

I don't like the primal kind of thing 

I like dreamy kind of sex which involves loads of emotional Connection, foreplay, flirting, Lovey dovey, deep intense romantic attraction which then finally leads to sex. 

I think of sex as a culmination or a  process of deep deep intimacy that is reached after all the initial stages of fulfilling romance are crossed

I see sex as the final destination between two lovers who get heart engaged first and later their bodies come together for a more  intense experience of intimacy. 

What do you think? 

 

[captainamerica]

There is nothing innocent about it. It is merely a stage Blue cultural programming. Since you like SD.

Women have this tendency naturally to an extent, but that is very greatly amplified in such cultures. The two are not even comparable. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@captainamerica how are you so sure about it? 

As far as I know, I naturally feel the way I feel.. Even if cultural conditioning encouraged me to have hedonistic sex, I would not because I would find it too dry and dispassionate. 

I don't think it has anything to do with culture. 

It's an organic feeling. Maybe not all women connect with it. 

But that doesn't make it cultural 

 

 

[SamC]

1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

Isn't there something called sexual Innocence like preserving oneself for the  true soulmate or lover and allow time for such a person to enter your life? 

But today's environment encourages people to engage in porn, or be experimental with sex, or focus solely on sex or have too much sex. 

Isn't there something like sexual Innocence that would kinda disappear if people engaged too much in sex, especially the kind of sex that is devoid of deep emotional connections and romantic chemistry. That is such dry sex in my opinion 

 

I would rather want deeper emotional bonding and deep romantic feelings to accompany the occasion of sexual involvement. 

I don't like the primal kind of thing 

I like dreamy kind of sex which involves loads of emotional Connection, foreplay, flirting, Lovey dovey, deep intense romantic attraction which then finally leads to sex. 

I think of sex as a culmination or a  process of deep deep intimacy that is reached after all the initial stages of fulfilling romance are crossed

I see sex as the final destination between two lovers who get heart engaged first and later their bodies come together for a more  intense experience of intimacy. 

What do you think? 

 

I think it is beutiful and a perfect explanation of female sexuality.

[Preety_India]

@SamC

[Javfly33]

Yeah, but ain't easy to find that 

[EnlightenmentBlog]

5 hours ago, Preety_India said:

But today's environment encourages people to engage in porn, or be experimental with sex, or focus solely on sex or have too much sex. 

It's called freedom. Some people want to have sex as much as you change your profile pic.

[Javfly33]

27 minutes ago, EnlightenmentBlog said:

Some people want to have sex as much as you change your profile pic.

Lol

[RendHeaven]

35 minutes ago, EnlightenmentBlog said:

It's called freedom. Some people want to have sex as much as you change your profile pic.

oh my god 

[Preety_India]

@EnlightenmentBlog stop trolling me on my threads and making things personal or bringing my personal shit on here. 

This is like your 3rd or 4th attempt at trying to get my attention real bad by constantly trolling my threads 

Happy for finally getting on my nerves?????? 

This time you finally got my attention. You specifically choose my threads to trash. I have noticed your behavior and kept ignoring your trollish comments on my other threads. 

I am sick of your trollish comments. 

If you don't like my threads or think of me as a joke, then why bother reading my threads? Sick entertainment in getting a reaction out of me? 

@Javfly33 @Peter Miklis @RendHeaven  if you guys have even a tiny bit of respect for me then stop supporting his behavior. 

And don't tell me to chill. I tried ignoring his trollish personal attack comments multiple times. This time it got me. 

What you guys are doing is mild bullying  by joining in the ridicule? 

You enjoy my hurt feelings?? 

Good job. Completely trashed my thread. 

Not everyone enjoys such type of jokes. It's not even joking, it's basically bullying and roasting. 

For what, simply having a different thought? 

 

[Javfly33]

6 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@EnlightenmentBlog stop trolling me on my threads and making things personal or bringing my personal shit on here. 

This is like your 3rd or 4th attempt at trying to get my attention real bad by constantly trolling my threads 

Happy for finally getting on my nerves?????? 

This time you finally got my attention. You specifically choose my threads to trash. I have noticed your behavior and kept ignoring your trollish comments on my other threads. 

I am sick of your trollish comments. 

If you don't like my threads or think of me as a joke, then why bother reading my threads? Sick entertainment in getting a reaction out of me? 

@Javfly33 @Peter Miklis @RendHeaven  if you guys have even a tiny bit of respect for me then stop supporting his behavior. 

And don't tell me to chill. I tried ignoring his trollish personal attack comments multiple times. This time it got me. 

What you guys are doing is mild bullying  by joining in the ridicule? 

You enjoy my hurt feelings?? 

Good job. Completely trashed my thread. 

Not everyone enjoys such type of jokes. It's not even joking, it's basically bullying and roasting. 

For what, simply having a different thought? 

 

Don't be so sensitive about it. 

We don't hate you ? it was just a joke.

You have projected all of this to us.

You think Sadghuru would get ashamed for a joke? He would laugh it up more than us.

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Javfly33 said:

Don't be so sensitive about it. 

We don't hate you ? it was just a joke.

You have projected all of this to us.

You think Sadghuru would get ashamed for a joke? He would laugh it up more than us.

I'm not sadhguru. 

That guy has been trolling a lot of my threads and I have remained silent 

Sometimes enough is enough. 

Constant ridiculing does not come from a loving place especially knowing that the ridiculed person is not happy about it. 

 

[EnlightenmentBlog]

26 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@EnlightenmentBlog stop trolling me on my threads and making things personal or bringing my personal shit on here. 

This is like your 3rd or 4th attempt at trying to get my attention real bad by constantly trolling my threads 

Happy for finally getting on my nerves?????? 

This time you finally got my attention. You specifically choose my threads to trash. I have noticed your behavior and kept ignoring your trollish comments on my other threads. 

I am sick of your trollish comments. 

If you don't like my threads or think of me as a joke, then why bother reading my threads? Sick entertainment in getting a reaction out of me? 

If you spent half the time you write posts on this forum (especially on dating) on contemplation and self-inquiry, you'd be over your fantasized and childish views on relationships and have time to pursue some serious enlightenment. Which I believe we're trying to do here.

Or is the brutal truth so much for you that you start namecalling?

[Preety_India]

Just now, EnlightenmentBlog said:

If you spent half the time you write posts on this forum (especially on dating) on contemplation and self-inquiry, you'd be over your fantasized and childish views on relationships and have time to pursue some serious enlightenment. Which I believe we're trying to do here.

Or is the brutal truth so much for you that you start namecalling?

Nothing I said was childish even in the remotest sense. 

Like a guy said above, it's representation of female sexual emotions. 

You aren't pursuing enlightenment by taking people's personal details and trolling them 

And if you don't understand my concepts, maybe try being  a bit respectful instead of using a trolling ridiculing rhetoric. Not very enlightened. 

 

[EnlightenmentBlog]

3 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Nothing I said was childish even in the remotest sense. 

If you knew it was, you wouldn't have posted it.

4 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

You aren't pursuing enlightenment by taking people's personal details and trolling them 

When did calling sb out on their shit become trolling?

9 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

And if you don't understand my concepts, maybe try being  a bit respectful instead of using a trolling ridiculing rhetoric. Not very enlightened. 

Do you know for how long I've held myself back? But you keep on asking the same questions and denying to acknowledge another perspective. And now you're fending off your closed-mindedness by scape-goating me. 

[Preety_India]

10 minutes ago, EnlightenmentBlog said:

If you knew it was, you wouldn't have posted it.

Dude, stop insulting by calling someone's opinions childish. If you don't agree, fine, no need to insult. 

10 minutes ago, EnlightenmentBlog said:

When did calling sb out on their shit become trolling?

You aren't calling out on shit. Save your effort and spare me your trouble. I'm not doing shit to you 

 

All you are achieving is triggering me constantly with your antagonizing comments. If you want to create understanding, first learn to be respectful. 

My profile is completely irrelevant to the topic. So stop bringing up unnecessary nonsense. 

10 minutes ago, EnlightenmentBlog said:

Do you know for how long I've held myself back? But you keep on asking the same questions and denying to acknowledge another perspective. And now you're fending off your closed-mindedness by scape-goating me. 

If I ask the same questions and that's bothering you so much, you would have already ignored my question. Your actions don't match your intent. People who are so annoyed will simply avoid. Take responsibility of the fact that you're constantly trying to get a reaction out of me and I was silent and finally I'm giving you the reaction. You can't  decide what I should do with my goddamn profile or what I should do on the forum. You aren't doing any favors by blowing up my threads with your irrelevant personal attacks and you have the audacity to say that I'm scapegoating you when you come around to insult me? Learn to own your antagonizing behavior that you are constantly directing at me. 

 

 

[EnlightenmentBlog]

20 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Take responsibility of the fact that you're constantly trying to get a reaction out of me and I was silent and finally I'm giving you the reaction. You can't  decide what I should do with my goddamn profile or what I should do on the forum. You aren't doing any favors by blowing up my threads with your irrelevant personal attacks and you have the audacity to say that I'm scapegoating you when you come around to insult me?

I take full responsibility. I never even start debates cos I know they're pointless. That's why I often reply with humor or sarcasm. I've found it sticks to people better and you've proven me right. 

26 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Learn to own your antagonizing behavior that you are constantly directing at me. 

Done. You won't get another comment from me(unless you address me first). Only try to understand what I'm saying and whether it holds any merit. You seem very good at giving advice but you're terrible at taking it.

[Preety_India]

Just now, EnlightenmentBlog said:

You won't get another comment from me(unless you address me first).

Thanks. I hope I won't be getting anymore antagonization from you in the future. My last communication 

 

Just now, EnlightenmentBlog said:

 

Only try to understand what I'm saying and whether it holds any merit. You seem very good at giving advice but you're terrible at taking it.

Unsolicited advice is not very welcome 

Thanks. 

 

[Harlen Kelly]

@Preety_India The idea of soulmates is a fantastical idea that withers away eventually. There is no ''soulmate''. You can have a deep emotional bond with a preponderance of people, not just one. 

 

Edited June 1, 2021 by Harlen Kelly

[Preety_India]

@Harlen Kelly I wasn't referring to just one person one life. Of course I'm open to the idea of many soulmates however the main gist was a deep connection that leads to sex and preserving this innocence by not having sex only for sex.