Mastery

[ygorborges2]

Hellow every one ?

It's kind of cool being here, with people that are going in to the actualize jorney and want more in life. I don't care very much about what the groups around me it's interesting on, so feel very nice to be in a place with people like me.

I am 16, Brazilian, in 10th grade.

My goal is be more confident and authentic with others, specially around girls. I am studying by myself the psychology of woman and learning theoretically how attraction works. That is being kind of nice, but I think that the big deal is put all of this in practice, and that were I am having some problems.

Anyone that already pass in to the same situation and get over it have any suggestions of what I can do? How I can mastery this field, considering the situation that I am ? Any suggestions of videos / documentarys / resources ? 

I don't wanna be 50% better, but actually be one of the 1% of the guys out there. So I am looking for the bigs stuff... A lot of the material on internet its very genetic and superficial ?

 Would be even better to talk to some one on the skype that actually mastery this field and really know how the process looks like, for then I can be much more specific! So if you are interested, would be a pleasure

[Live Life Liam]

17 hours ago, ygorborges2 said:

Hellow every one ?

It's kind of cool being here, with people that are going in to the actualize jorney and want more in life. I don't care very much about what the groups around me it's interesting on, so feel very nice to be in a place with people like me.

I am 16, Brazilian, in 10th grade.

My goal is be more confident and authentic with others, specially around girls. I am studying by myself the psychology of woman and learning theoretically how attraction works. That is being kind of nice, but I think that the big deal is put all of this in practice, and that were I am having some problems.

Anyone that already pass in to the same situation and get over it have any suggestions of what I can do? How I can mastery this field, considering the situation that I am ? Any suggestions of videos / documentarys / resources ? 

I don't wanna be 50% better, but actually be one of the 1% of the guys out there. So I am looking for the bigs stuff... A lot of the material on internet its very genetic and superficial ?

 Would be even better to talk to some one on the skype that actually mastery this field and really know how the process looks like, for then I can be much more specific! So if you are interested, would be a pleasure

Are you looking for a girlfriend or for picking up girls? 

The thing is a lot of guys study for years in this field when they don't realise how easy it can be to actually pick up girls and it can actually be more difficult to find a long lasting partner with similar values so it's ironic people think this is something that needs mastering.

Of course it depends on the culture you live in too. I live in Britain where girls are essentially becoming socially the same as guys and play around a little more with multiple sexual partners. Since it's more acceptable it's easier to find someone since they are on the same page as you. 

Personally I have a girlfriend and do not plan to go out dating other people again anytime soon as I feel its a waste of time since my priorities are my life purpose and enlightenment.

What I have realised though is that the more I focus on my dreams and aspire to help others I am ultimately more attractive to girls and generally that's the case for everyone. A lot of my friends say they love a man who's passionate about something and it's hot. 

That's just one tip so the goal is to not focus on attracting women as you will NEVER be successful with this attitude. Instead when you are going out places to pursue them I'd recommend to have another focus in why you are doing what you are doing but speak to women whenever you have to chance.

Humans are amazing at subconsciously sensing what your intention is when speaking to them so if your focus is on self improvement and towards a particular dream of yours they will sense that as the way communicate will change and you want even notice it.

Neediness is the worst trait in the world when attracting someone so that's why you must have other things driving you. Also instead of playing a macho image like most guys try be vulnerable and expressive about your feelings.

Balance the masculine and feminine as this is a genius way to generally be more attractive as your unique and people love that nomatter what gender. 

I'm not just telling you this such with no evidence I've experienced this stuff myself and this is without actively seeking women. I find it a waste of time and think pick up is generally not very respectful.

Btw I'm 17 so I'm a year older then you so it's not like I've had decades of experience although I've always had a lot of female friends and partners throughout my life so I have learnt all these through this time. 

I guarantee you that this stuff genuinely works. 

I don't have videos or books or anything for you since practice is perfect. You don't need theory for this field what you need is action and to work with the flow. If your going to read a book then try read books that develop you internally and aren't focused on dating since they are usually more helpful.

Everyone learns differently though but I'm telling you that if you have the idea that attracting women is like mastering Kung fu then you will always find it a challenge.

Just go out there and connect with women. Some people you click with and some you dont. To get over your anxiety (if you have it) of approaching don't obsess over the outcome. Stop glorifying women and the fear will go away. Also meditation every morning over time will solve this issue trust me.

I wish you the best on your journey. Anything is possible and I believe in you.

If you want something you just reach out and grab it.

Peace 

Edited November 8, 2016 by Live Life Liam