Machiavellian traits, Ruthless Imperator, Asshole

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How to be an asshole ?

Trying to learn 

 

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The closest phrase in the dictionary is ruthless imperator 

For me to become this is very difficult.

But I need to explore the aspects of a ruthless imperator.

 

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Ok so basically you have to show that being the bigger person and not engaging a fight is a choice.  Not just your default mode that you're unable to deviate from. Otherwise, they will see and treat you like a doormat and prey upon you like lions. Knowing that you only play high cards, they will use this opportunity to hit you under the belt with low cards 'cause you've simply got no defense down there.  So how to show this is a choice and you've got options? This is easier said than done, but basically you gotta show you can go both ways - how to be clean and how to fight in the mud. Only then, they will respect you 'cause they can't mess with you.  In the language of spiral dynamics, you could say that red stage respects power, strength and dominance. So you have to communicate in their language.  Kindness and integrity is irreverent and won't save you here.  I mean I guess you already know all that, that's why you're asking how. Ok so these are some of below belt hits that you can use that I've been studying, and I warn you ahead, these are extremely dirty methods that might grind your gears:

 Use something they have confided in you against them - So they might have told you a family secret, or something they have done they're embarrassed about, maybe smthg they wish would happen for them but it never did.  Basically, they've opened up their heart to you at some point, and what you do with that info? You bring that up onto the table and stab them right in the heart.

 Attack a disability or a deficiency in them. Something they see as an impairment and that they cannot change it no matter what. It's the kicking the cane off their hands and laugh at them falling type of method. 

Target an unspoken insecurity - This one comes from your own observation.  They're so insecure about something that they won't even talk about it.  But you can see it... and usually you would walk around eggshell to make sure to not scratch that sensitive part of them.  But now, this is the time you expose it all and roast the shit out of them.

Attack an open-wound. You use their trauma and PTSD against them... (ex: A mother who has lost her infant. something dear was lost and that wound will never heal, that's why it remains open)  This is like adding acid to a burned survivor. 

I can't stress enough how important it is that you make sure you use these ONLY when it's absolutely necessary: for self-defense. And ONLY when they strike first. Words can cut deep and traumatize people. But also make sure not to hesitate when the moment arises. If you see them using one of these methods and they punch you dirty down there, what you do is you pull out the sniper gun and splatter their guts away (metaphorically speaking)

Edited 12 hours ago by mivafofa

 

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