Radical Honesty Makes Me Horny.

[ivankiss]

31 minutes ago, Proserpina said:

I've noticed this as well. It's like there are no limits either. And I've found myself slipping into it sometimes.  Atleast I'm getting good practice at knowing how to cope with below the belt emotional triggering.

Yup. It's a bit uncomfortable, but also kinda fun. At least in my experience.

And it's not this forum only that reflects this. The world in general praises dickeadness, arrogance and toxic assertiveness. And I'm kinda saying here that that can be done in an honest, no-bs way. It can be a good useful skill to have. Sometimes there is no other way out. You cannot reason with some people the nice and gentle way. It flies over their head.

50 minutes ago, TripleFly said:

You give me tantrica vibes

I think you will really flower if you go the sexual energy route. Learn how to have multiple orgasms and take the true pleasure route to God.

Try listening to 'Making Love' by Barry long 

Interesting, thanks. Might look into that deeper.

34 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

Sometimes you just have to play the thickest string, I get it.

Good one. 

@RickyFitts Cool stuff, thanks!

[RickyFitts]

@ivankiss You're welcome 

 

3 hours ago, ivankiss said:

And it's not this forum only that reflects this. The world in general praises dickeadness, arrogance and toxic assertiveness. And I'm kinda saying here that that can be done in an honest, no-bs way. It can be a good useful skill to have. Sometimes there is no other way out. You cannot reason with some people the nice and gentle way. It flies over their head.

True enough. I don't even waste my breath with such people if I can help it, to be honest, don't have the energy for it at the moment. Boy, though, biting your tongue and walking away can seem like the hardest thing in the world sometimes.

[ivankiss]

@RickyFitts Feel ya.

But there are times when walking away is not the highest choice. Sometimes God wants you to commit to your truth and stand your ground - so to speak. Say what you gotta say, and then turn around and walk away.

Kinda practicing getting nasty in a (semi) conscious way these days. I find that relevant now. I slept through those classes.

Edited May 29, 2021 by ivankiss

[RickyFitts]

@ivankiss Oh yeah, there are definitely times to speak up. Just depends where it's coming from I think, if it's coming from a judgmental, reactive place then I prefer to keep it to myself if I can help it (I can't always).

Edited May 29, 2021 by RickyFitts

[ivankiss]

@RickyFitts That seems like a healthy way of thinking. Good for you.

Edited May 29, 2021 by ivankiss

[Zeroguy]

Maybe radical honest makes you horny but it really seems I am different. Nothing beats that peachy... Doesn't matter. 

[ivankiss]

@Zeroguy Life is peachy