How judgmental are you?

[Eren Eeager]

Judgment is a tool that the Ego uses to support its prespective. Others are idiots and that's why they do what they do. I am different. I am right. We know that already. But how much judgment is okey?

Zero judgment. If you are smart, that's good but you could easily have been that idiot drug addict. It is all about karma. Karma dictates everything. So yeah,don't judge anyone. Just embrace that they are at different levels of development than you. Being a piece of shit is a developmental level. And it is all relative. You are an idiot compared to a spiritual master ??. So just embrace everyone and don't let the ego judge.

 

[Willie]

That also includes not letting the ego judge judgments, right?

[ivankiss]

I struggled alot with judgement. More precisely; self-judgement.

I rarely judged others. I was too busy judging the crap out of me.

It had it's pros and cons. I never spent too much time worrying about what others are doing. To me it was natural to be cool with where people are at. I was very open towards and curious about our differences. But I was also very naive to people's bullshit. Perhaps a healthy dose of judgement would've helped me avoid some pain and trauma. Judgment can keep you on your track, too. It can be helpful at a certain point. Particularly in the earlier stages of development. But in the long run it's not healthy. It creates a lot of stress, delusion and even tragedies. It is, in fact, meant to be let go of.

Nowdays; I'd say I judge myself significantly less. And even less others. Judgement is barely noticeable in my experience. The toxic version - that is. Healthy judgement, or discernment, is necessary.

Edited May 26, 2021 by ivankiss

[lmfao]

When I look at you I see this:

I wish you'd understand but you just don't, I see the code.

[Alex bAlex]

I become more aware of judging and I see that it's just a projection of something that I haven't worked on within myself. 

 

However the level (amount) of judgment droped a lot in the past three years.

When I hear other people judging their environment or other people, I'm like " uhmm some is projecting here" , and I feel at peace being aware of it - because I figured it out. 

Oh wait, everyone else figure it out as well ?(in their point of view)

✌?

[mivafofa]

The only place I really see myself judging nowadays is bad parenting, unconscious bad parents, and some people with cluster B personality disorders. Because I suffered tremendously by the hands of these people, and I'm just not ready to let go 

Edited May 27, 2021 by mivafofa

[Eren Eeager]

@mivafofa take your time! But still work on it.