So it seems, that nobody does complete personal development at my school. And by complete I mean focusing everything holistically. Exercising, meditating, self improvement work on the mind, hobbies, living each day to the max( using time wisely.)  Now there are people who go to the gym and eat healthy. But they watch tv, waste time with people that are negative, listen to awful mainstream music( subjective opinion).   It seems like the problem is that i'm not a good conversationalist.