Die Single Or Share A Partner?

[Preety_India]

I would rather die alone or I think a better way to put it that will sound less brutal is that I better opt to remain single than being with multiple partners.

I believe in the sanctimony of monogamous relationships.

 

 

Edited May 20, 2021 by Preety_India

[intotheblack]

8 hours ago, Raptorsin7 said:

I'm planning on going on solo trips once covid is over i'm hoping it'll be a good growing experience.

Yeah you should 100%. I recommend that you stay in hostels, it’s such a good way to meet people.. it’s also a good way to grow your confidence, by introducing yourself to new people. I made some good friends over the years who I kept in contact with. It’s nice to know people from around the world, and if you decide to travel to their city you can meet you them again. 
I can’t wait to travel again after all this shit is over! ? 

[Raptorsin7]

1 minute ago, intotheblack said:

Yeah you should 100%. I recommend that you stay in hostels, it’s such a good way to meet people.. it’s also a good way to grow your confidence, by introducing yourself to new people. I made some good friends over the years who I kept in contact with. It’s nice to know people from around the world, and if you decide to travel to their city you can meet you them again. 
I can’t wait to travel again after all this shit is over! ? 

Haha that's funny you mentioned hostels specifically. This has been something i've been thinking of, I have a strong resistance to staying in hostels. I love being on my own and I think I would find much more peach being on my own and just renting a solo place. But at the same time I think I would be missing out on so much growth because I'm taking the path of least resistance here.

I think I would some compromise where I stay in hostels for part of it and stay on my own for other parts

[intotheblack]

1 minute ago, Raptorsin7 said:

Haha that's funny you mentioned hostels specifically. This has been something i've been thinking of, I have a strong resistance to staying in hostels. I love being on my own and I think I would find much more peach being on my own and just renting a solo place. But at the same time I think I would be missing out on so much growth because I'm taking the path of least resistance here.

I think I would some compromise where I stay in hostels for part of it and stay on my own for other parts

Haha yeah of course.  I also didn’t like it, but did it sometimes for the reason of meeting people.  You can also get a private room in a hostel. Just check reviews first and choose nice ones. If you wanna just be by yourself and explore alone then yeah just get a hotel or Airbnb. 
But if you want to meet people to hang out with at night etc. then some hostels organise everyone to go out together.  I did this once but it was too much partying haha..  Usually what I did was walk over to people and introduce myself and then ask them if they wanted to explore the city together or go for drinks.  
One time I went to a festival by myself, and ended up going there with 2 people who were staying in my room, we hung out the whole weekend then went our separate ways. 

 

[Raptorsin7]

1 minute ago, intotheblack said:

Haha yeah of course.  I also didn’t like it, but did it sometimes for the reason of meeting people.  You can also get a private room in a hostel. Just check reviews first and choose nice ones. If you wanna just be by yourself and explore alone then yeah just get a hotel or Airbnb. 
But if you want to meet people to hang out with at night etc. then some hostels organise everyone to go out together.  I did this once but it was too much partying haha..  Usually what I did was walk over to people and introduce myself and then ask them if they wanted to explore the city together or go for drinks.  
One time I went to a festival by myself, and ended up going there with 2 people who were staying in my room, we hung out the whole weekend then went our separate ways. 

Okay that's really interesting. I think I would travel to a bunch of different cities and try a bunch of different stuff and see what I like doing. I am not a big party person, but maybe it could be fun to do it in a few cities with a big group. 

What length of time do you think is ideal for solo travelling? I think I would want to spend at least a few months but I'd also want to spend some time in just pure isolation too so that would cut into the trip

[intotheblack]

Just now, Raptorsin7 said:

Okay that's really interesting. I think I would travel to a bunch of different cities and try a bunch of different stuff and see what I like doing. I am not a big party person, but maybe it could be fun to do it in a few cities with a big group. 

What length of time do you think is ideal for solo travelling? I think I would want to spend at least a few months but I'd also want to spend some time in just pure isolation too so that would cut into the trip

Yeah well this was some years ago now when I was fond of going out and drinking and really wanted to meet people.  But I’ve outgrown that now.  
I never went backpacking for months or anything like that, maybe at some point in the future I will. it was mostly shorter trips that I’m talking about.  The longest trip I did was 3 weeks in the Philippines, but I met with a friend there and we stayed in beach bungalows and hotels.  
I have spent a lot of time in isolation living by myself. I think when travelling it would be more like 70% isolation 30% socialising.  Most of the time I don’t want to talk to anyone. 
 

[RendHeaven]

You will die alone, no matter how many people you surround yourself with, no matter how strong your bonds.

What a beautiful thing...

[intotheblack]

17 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

You will die alone, no matter how many people you surround yourself with, no matter how strong your bonds.

What a beautiful thing...

I suppose it should be reworded to ‘live alone’ 

[Emerald]

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