This is how you can simulate PUA workshop

[StarStruck]

With RSD it is around 2k

With others like The Natural lifestyles 3k and 4k <> 15k for a weekend

Just look at this:

I always wanted to take a seminar like this until recently. 1,5 months ago I started cold approaching without a coach or help; just self study. Now that I watch videos like this I'm like "wtf?" people pay thousands of dollars/euros to a pony tailed dude to tell them to say "Hi, what's up?", "You are cute", "what is your name?" to women?

It seems people just pay the money so somebody can tell them and give them the permission to approach another human being. Of course there is feedback you get from the coaches but just buy a recorder put it in your pocket while doing approaches and you can listen back to yourself. This seminar is not even going further than the pickup phase.

This is how you can simulate a PUA workshop:

1. Buy a recorder to record your interactions
2. Go to a neighboring city (not your home city) and this will significantly diminish your approach anxiety; and just be yourself even if that causes shame
3. Find a good balance between theory and practice; if you are too deep in the theory; stop studying theory until you took equal amount of action
4. Find a PUA friend so you can do it together; he doesn't even need to know PUA; I found one who is just a natural

 

[Leo Gura]

Finding a wingman is the key.

If you find a good wingman, it's better than a $2000 bootcamp.

[kamill]

I approached in my small home city many girls and once I approached same girl twice in 2 day spam, It was the weirdest and funniest shit ever

Its better to approach in different city  

[Adrian325]

Have a wingman,take a benzo and be bold. Make it fun and don't care about the outcome. 

[Leo Gura]

43 minutes ago, Adrian325 said:

Have a wingman,take a benzo and be bold. Make it fun and don't care about the outcome. 

 

[Bogdan]

@Leo Gura What does a good wingman do? Oh, and can a girl be a wingman too?

Edited May 17, 2021 by Bogdan

[Leo Gura]

17 minutes ago, Bogdan said:

@Leo Gura What does a good wingman do?

Mostly 4 things:

1) Keeps you company, keeps your motivation up

2) Gives you advice from his base of deep experience

3) Demonstrates how to do proper pickup

4) Helps you pull 2-sets where the other girl needs a guy. It's basically impossible to pull a 2-set without a wing.

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Oh, and can a girl be a wingman too?

Yes

That's classic three-some game.

[Windappreciator]

38 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Mostly 4 things:

1) Keeps you company, keeps your motivation up

2) Gives you advice from his base of deep experience

3) Demonstrates how to do proper pickup

4) Helps you pull 2-sets where the other girl needs a guy. It's basically impossible to pull a 2-set without a wing.

Yes

That's classic three-some game.

And you do not see how stuck you are with this?

[Leo Gura]

26 minutes ago, Windappreciator said:

And you do not see how stuck you are with this?

I am not stuck. I don't do pickup much any more. I am just sharing my understanding of how it works.

[Windappreciator]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I am not stuck. I don't do pickup much any more. I am just sharing my understanding of how it works.

And what did you substite it for? Contemplation and work?

I have never seen you personate a lover when approaching something with more femininity. 

I am certain you can express an honest understanding towards the dance of love between genders.

But are you withholding it from yourself?

Edited May 17, 2021 by Windappreciator

[StarStruck]

5 hours ago, Bogdan said:

@Leo Gura What does a good wingman do? Oh, and can a girl be a wingman too?

I have trouble with always having stuff to say. There are moments that I just blank out. Having a wingman fill in the blanks helps me a lot. I can also pick up on the vibe he is sending out.

[Rajneeshpuram]

Before all that is important to deconstruct all kind of social conditioning. Un-learn all the blue pill.

[JJfromSwitzerland]

It's so supid to spend so much money on a bootcamp, at the end of the day you still have to do it and approach.

So I am with you an cannot understand why you should pay other dudes money to tell you how to say "hi" to a woman