Today on " What managed to trigger me":

[mmKay]

I stumbled upon this video and for some reason I got deeply triggered.

I instantly thought : a man would NEVER be able to act like this, and even less in public.

What I discovered later was that I was holding onto a deep resentment towards hot girls for what I thought "was having an easy dating life".

But by thinking a little further, there is lot's that hot grils struggle with as well. Constantly being given attention, being objectified, pumped and dumped, jelously from other girls, worring about rape, being showered with praise from men, free dinners, club entrances, vacations .

All of this hinders her leverage for quality development, and when her looks wither, she may end helpless if she hasn't locked down a quality guy. 

And now i feel more empathy towards hot grills. 

Thoughts? 

[SamC]

 

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And now i feel more empathy towards hot grills. 

Me too! We need to raise awareness around this issue!

#prayforthehotgrills

 

Edited May 10, 2021 by SamC

[Barbara]

That's really good for both of you  

[Harlen Kelly]

@mmKay Hahahaha! Nice realization man! Seriously though, imagine how terrified is a very beautiful woman who derives her sense of self primarily from her appearance of the fact that after 35 her looks will inevitably wither away dramatically? It's equivalent to the fear that a rich person has of losing their wealth, the only difference being that everybody will eventually age.  And as you mentioned the fear of rape, etc...

Edited May 11, 2021 by Harlen Kelly

[RendHeaven]

13 hours ago, SamC said:

#prayforthehotgrills

 

pfft