I don't think having a zero ego is a good idea. That's not really going to benefit survival.  You see in spiritual circles where they teach about killing the ego.  I'm focused on developing and shaping healthy ego.  I want to start a discussion  on two points here  What defines a healthy ego and what does it look like? What steps can be taken (practical steps ) to cultivate this healthy ego?   Can I please request to keep the discussions a bit matured and stay on topic?...  (without blowing up the thread and making everything personal,  cut down the sensationalism, last thread was an embarrassment  ) and please do not create unnecessary conflicts, that would be great if a certain civility is maintained.  We can get somewhere with our discussion and come to useful insights during this conversation and that's what the thread is about.  Your input is highly appreciated.  Thanks.