What if being attracted to fat ass is just an illusion

[Javfly33]

8 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

What about my attraction to red leather thigh high boots? Must be my genetics...

Lol Im sure Richard Dawkins would seriously say yes.

[Someone here]

5 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

shiny=water

And fat ass =? 

Jk lol 

[mandyjw]

Just now, Someone here said:

And fat ass =? 

Jk lol 

Them babies are much less likely to get stuck when they come out.

There I ruined it for all of you. You're welcome!

[Someone here]

Holy shit 

[LastThursday]

34 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@LastThursday idk. Fetishes are developed later on. But your basic sexual orientation (whether you're gay or straight for example) is highly determined by your genes. 

You don't think that sexual orientation could ever be fluid over a life time? And, if a fetish can be developed why not an orientation for boobs or a beard? If your orientation is programmed at birth, then how does it take into account the huge array of different sizes and shapes of people? Does genetics orient you to find behaviour or appearance or smell attractive? Sorry, braindumping.

[mandyjw]

26 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Holy shit 

A few centuries ago your mother would be like "NO! You must ABSOLUTELY NOT marry her! She does not have child-bearing hips!" And you'd be like, "Screw, you Mom! Ima gonna do what I want!" And that's how skinny women came into fashion.  JK, not really, although, I dunno, maybe. 

 

All the survival stories and excuses forgotten, you're naturally attracted to what serves you. This isn't bad unless you too narrowly define what "you" are. If you do, you're in the thought realm and that creates a fear and desire movement around it and actually keeps what you want away. It also makes you susceptible to confusing your own authentic desires for what you think you're supposed to want because you see other people wanting it or because you're told you should want it. 

Rosa Parks wanted to stay in her seat so she did. Now, all that came from that since had nothing to do with a bus seat, yet EVERYTHING to do with it. Authentic desires (truly on a deep level felt and owned desires) have yours' and everyone's wellbeing in mind even if on the surface they seem to fly in the face of what you think is your best interest in your own survival. 

[Thief King]

3 hours ago, Nahm said:

The fat ass, or even a phat ass, is appearance. That there’s a you attracted is an illusion. You already are that phat ass. 

And my love for phat ass? Is that an illusion? ;P

[mandyjw]

38 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

You don't think that sexual orientation could ever be fluid over a life time? And, if a fetish can be developed why not an orientation for boobs or a beard? If your orientation is programmed at birth, then how does it take into account the huge array of different sizes and shapes of people? Does genetics orient you to find behaviour or appearance or smell attractive? Sorry, braindumping.

Everything you're naturally drawn to is you leading you back to yourself. If you want to really creep yourself out, (amaze yourself) you can get into symbolism and delve deep into the psyche and deeper desires behind all the weird attractions you have. All desires stem from the same source, which is already fulfilled, so you can chase out a specific attraction or desire to no end, or go full circle. Knowing that it's neither meaningful or meaningless, neither fulfilled nor unfulfilled frees you from it and frees you to it. 

Sexual attraction is just one example.

You're always attracted to something, attraction is also your focus. That's probably why it feels bad to focus on something you have an aversion to or don't want to be focusing on. It's an effort, like trying to make the two same poles of a magnet stick. 

 

[Javfly33]

Just now, Thief King said:

And my love for phat ass? Is that an illusion? ;P

That's the whole point that I made in this topic lol

21 hours ago, ivankiss said:

 

 

[Nahm]

30 minutes ago, Thief King said:

And my love for phat ass? Is that an illusion? ;P

The illusion is that it’s yours. The rest is just appearass.

[Zeroguy]

18 minutes ago, Nahm said:

The illusion is that it’s yours. The rest is just appearass.

Still, I love rounded. 

Edited May 4, 2021 by Zeroguy

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, LastThursday said:

You don't think that sexual orientation could ever be fluid over a life time? And, if a fetish can be developed why not an orientation for boobs or a beard? If your orientation is programmed at birth, then how does it take into account the huge array of different sizes and shapes of people? Does genetics orient you to find behaviour or appearance or smell attractive? Sorry, braindumping.

Yes it can be fluid. As I said it's "mostly" due to genetics.  Sexual orientation is caused by a complex interplay of  gender, genetic, hormonal, and environmental influences. Idk about other factors.  What you are talking about is the environmental factors which are hard to calculate because they vary from person to person based on their sexual experiences throughout their lives. From these factors.. Genetics is what plays the most impact. 

Ever heard of the "gay gene"? There's actually studies that revealed five spots on the human genome that are linked to same-sex sexual behaviour. 

 

Edited May 4, 2021 by Someone here

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, mandyjw said:

It also makes you susceptible to confusing your own authentic desires for what you think you're supposed to want because you see other people wanting it or because you're told you should want it

I was kinda going with the flow. I don't even click on "big booty" porn. I like slim women lol 

[ivankiss]

19 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I like slim women lol 

Ayooo ?? 

[mandyjw]

42 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I was kinda going with the flow. I don't even click on "big booty" porn. I like slim women lol 

Wasn't talking about butts anymore at that point. Gotta hand it you, you boys are so incredibly well focused on one thing. 

 

[Zeroguy]

4 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

Wasn't talking about butts anymore at that point. Gotta hand it you, you boys are so incredibly well focused on one thing. 

 

Yes, your imagination. 

[Michael569]

2 hours ago, mandyjw said:

Them babies are much less likely to get stuck when they come out.

I was contemplating what it is that gets men attracted to buts and hips and boobs and it is exactly that. Boobs mean the chances of offspring dying of malnutrition are lower (although size has nothing to do with lactation volume), hips & bum mean more space for baby during birth means possibility of bigger baby which means higher chances of the offspring not dying during early days. Funny how evolution turned us in horny sex machines where in reality we only want what is best for our babies 

However this brings me to the next question, why do women like men with more profound jawline? 

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

Wasn't talking about butts anymore at that point. Gotta hand it you, you boys are so incredibly well focused on one thing. 

 

That's how you got a child Mandy.

Be appreciative.

[mandyjw]

This place gets just gets more and more inviting to women and sincere seekers by the day. 

3 minutes ago, Michael569 said:

I was contemplating what it is that gets men attracted to buts and hips and boobs and it is exactly that. Boobs mean the chances of offspring dying of malnutrition are lower (although size has nothing to do with lactation volume), hips & bum mean more space for baby during birth means possibility of bigger baby which means higher chances of the offspring not dying during early days. Funny how evolution turned us in horny sex machines where in reality we only want what is best for our babies 

Contrary to popular belief, the little head isn't the dumb one. They both are. 

 

[VeganAwake]

When I see the thick it makes me think red beans and rice didn't miss her.... she probably makes yummy jambalaya ❤