Go out and experience life!

[Tangerinedream]

Just a friendly reminder to go out and experience real life relationships... ❤️ ... too much theory and and overthinking doesn’t make up for ‘real’ life experiences. 
Go out and make new friends, attend parties, create a social circle.  
get off the forum, get off social media and go live your life.

you are young, these are the good times in your life, so put on a smile and it will be alright... 

 

Edited May 1, 2021 by Tangerinedream

[Tangerinedream]

Tonight I went to meet with a few friends for the first time in a long time because of corona.  I am high on life and forgot how good time with friends can be. ❤️. 

[JJfromSwitzerland]

I agree, I see people here asking so many questions about dating instead of talking to people in real life. I am an open person and talk to many strangers so I don't even ask these dating questions all the people here do, for example at the skate park (skateboarding is my nr. 1 hobby) and gym I get to know many people - men and women cause I am open and because of that I never really struggled with dating

[JJfromSwitzerland]

Let me add this: now is pandemic time and people complain about it is difficult to date. For me not at all, I even met the woman I am dating right now in the pandemic time, I just saw her and approached her at daytime in my city - so this is just another excuse. I do understand you need to be careful these days to not catch the virus but for me I take the risk of maybe get the virus but still have a life instead of living in anxiety cause I am young, healthy and feel fit

[JJfromSwitzerland]

@Peter Miklis True, I am just lucky to live in the place I do live to have these circumstances and I am thankful for that but if you live in a village (I grew up in a small town), you know everybody so dating advice doesn't really help you there so you don't need this information and if you live in an underdeveloped country, I don't think you need dating advice either. I think you have other issues there

[Tangerinedream]

Yeah pandemic life is hard. That’s why it’s important to have a few quality friends in your life, and I’m not talking about dating.  I hadn’t been to meet friends since before November. Last night we met and had a great time, just the human connection, dancing and talking lifted me right up ? 

all I see on the forum is talk about how to sleep with whoever, but nobody is ever talking about making meaningful friendship connections.

Just time with people who you can be yourself without worrying about ‘am I good enough for this girl/boy?’