Severely sexually frustrated. Rant.

[Thought Art]

Look up online dating courses and talk to someone. Invest in yourself and you'll be surprsised.

[Alexo45]

On 4-5-2021 at 10:50 PM, Roy said:

Otherwise you need to start dating again if you want to have sex. You can bypass all the stressful approaching and pick-up stuff by just doing online dating, it's safer anyways right now with Covid.

You've already had relationships before, so it's not like you can't easily do it again.

So make a good tinder profile, work at getting dates every day and I guarantee you will have your dick wet by the end of the month. As in start doing it right now after you read this comment. You'll feel a lot better taking action towards it than stewing in your negative thoughts about it.

I hate to say it but Tinder and Bumble is making shit worse. I've installed the app shortly after my post and quickly got over 10 matches. Most of them literally don't even talk to me, say almost close to nothing, or stop responding for no reason at all. One particular girl on Tinder i had a good convo with for several days, and now she's literally not responding anymore when i didn't say anything weird at all. It's making me needy af. Strongly thinking about deleting it again. It's making me doubt myself even more.

[Alexo45]

On 5-5-2021 at 10:00 PM, ilja said:

Mr. Alexo Sexo,

what excatly do you fear in approaching women, the rejection or public embarrassment?

Both. 

[Alexo45]

On 4-5-2021 at 10:36 PM, ivankiss said:

Oh man. I can only imagine the pain.

Have you considered a prostitute? I understand it's not what you'd prefer, but it might help you blow off some steam. Release some of that built up tension and anxiety. And you could really get into finding a prostitute that resonates with you. That will not make you too nervous or anything. You could even open up yourself briefly to her about your situation. It could actually be a very pleasant experience.

Once you 'get it out of your system' (I doubt once would be enough) you'd be more capable of coming up with a plan on how to deal with this issue and stick to it.

But be careful, if you do this. That could easily become your next addition. And you would not evolve.

Still; better than pixels on a screen for an eternity - I guess ? 

Best of luck.

I've visited prostitutes in the past. I liked it, but honestly it left me empty in the end too. I've sworn to myself that i wouldn't take anything but a real woman who i picked up myself anymore. It's pathetic. I have to get one myself. I'm not giving myself the easy way out anymore. I'd rather get castrated. I'm not ugly and decent looking. Shit has to change.

[Alexo45]

On 4-5-2021 at 7:36 PM, Bando said:

Get off porn its killing your drive and make a plan to meet new chicks and get yourself laid your only young once

I'm not watching it anymore. Last time was over 3 weks ago. It's another easy way out. Watching it now would literally ease this pain in 5 seconds, i know it will. I would fall asleep and not care anymore. I'm not doing it. Only the real deal or nothing.

[ivankiss]

2 hours ago, Alexo45 said:

I've visited prostitutes in the past. I liked it, but honestly it left me empty in the end too. I've sworn to myself that i wouldn't take anything but a real woman who i picked up myself anymore. It's pathetic. I have to get one myself. I'm not giving myself the easy way out anymore. I'd rather get castrated. I'm not ugly and decent looking. Shit has to change.

Well then good for ya. I'd say that's a pretty good/healthy mindset you got going on there. 

Best of luck!

[integral]

8 hours ago, Alexo45 said:

I hate to say it but Tinder and Bumble is making shit worse. I've installed the app shortly after my post and quickly got over 10 matches. Most of them literally don't even talk to me, say almost close to nothing, or stop responding for no reason at all. One particular girl on Tinder i had a good convo with for several days, and now she's literally not responding anymore when i didn't say anything weird at all. It's making me needy af. Strongly thinking about deleting it again. It's making me doubt myself even more.

Always ask them to meet up ASAP, no waiting around chatting, the reason they stopped responding is because they found someone else on the site, who probably she meet in real life, you where to slow. Nearly on the first or second day, explain that you want to meet up to see if we connected. 

[CBN]

On 01/05/2021 at 3:03 PM, Alexo45 said:

I don't know how long it has been, but at least 5 years. 5 years without sex, without a female touching me. I'm craving it so bad, it hurts. I can't even hear the word sex without getting angry and wanting to punch someone. I  don't know what to do about it. I never learned to approach woman, how to reel them in. All i did was watching porn whenever i felt the need to. In my life i only had 2 serious relationships, which happened out of the blue. I never had to pursue or anything for them to happen. I had tons of sex with my exes, but it has been years now. I can't take it anymore. I don't want to use porn anymore. All that it's doing is making me feel more empty and frustrated inside. God damit. I feel so unworthy for some reason, even though i know i'm good looking because a lot of people tell me. I've had tons of moments were it was obvious the girl was interested in me and were i should have approached. I'm just too much of a pussy and i can't do it. I have so any limiting beliefs about woman and dating. 

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[Harlen Kelly]

@CBN You might get banned if you link sites like that.