Severely sexually frustrated. Rant.

[Alexo45]

I don't know how long it has been, but at least 5 years. 5 years without sex, without a female touching me. I'm craving it so bad, it hurts. I can't even hear the word sex without getting angry and wanting to punch someone. I  don't know what to do about it. I never learned to approach woman, how to reel them in. All i did was watching porn whenever i felt the need to. In my life i only had 2 serious relationships, which happened out of the blue. I never had to pursue or anything for them to happen. I had tons of sex with my exes, but it has been years now. I can't take it anymore. I don't want to use porn anymore. All that it's doing is making me feel more empty and frustrated inside. God damit. I feel so unworthy for some reason, even though i know i'm good looking because a lot of people tell me. I've had tons of moments were it was obvious the girl was interested in me and were i should have approached. I'm just too much of a pussy and i can't do it. I have so any limiting beliefs about woman and dating. 

[blackchair]

 im 4years without sex and im doing fine, 

[Alexo45]

2 minutes ago, blackchair said:

 im 4years without sex and im doing fine, 

I bet u watch porn.

[blackchair]

yes i do, but i understand your loneliness, its hard sometimes. 

[Alexo45]

1 minute ago, blackchair said:

yes i do, but i understand your loneliness, its hard sometimes. 

Honestly you should stop allowing yourself to watch porn and see what happens. You too crave actual intimacy instead of stupid pixels on a screen. I can go until i die without sex by watching porn. It's so easy and my brain loves it. It believes it had actual sex. Consequence is that i will feel like a mindless zombie all the time. My emotions will be numbed 24/7.

[blackchair]

yeah, porn doesnt play such a huge part of my life, im currently focused on myself so im happy and content (most of the time) and making plans for the future......

[Karmadhi]

@Alexo45 If you are good looking just use online dating. You will get dates and avoid approaching  although i would recommend it just to conquer your fears. As a good looking guy it is very easy to get laid if you actually want these days so just use some online dating and get your needs met.

[Shin]

1 hour ago, blackchair said:

 im 4years without sex and im doing fine, 

I think the op didn't heal some past traumas and has self esteem issues.

What looks likes a non issue to you isn't what everybody in the world experience you know

 

[Alexo45]

1 minute ago, Shin said:

I think the op didn't heal some past traumas and has self esteem issues.

What looks likes a non issue to you isn't what everybody in the world experience you know

 

I don't see how self esteem issues have anything to do with being sexually frustrated. I want sex and intimacy. I need feminine energy in my life. Not because i have trauma, but because i'm a healthy man and i crave it.

[blackchair]

@Shin see....(gloating off)

[Shin]

1 hour ago, Alexo45 said:

I don't see how self esteem issues have anything to do with being sexually frustrated. I want sex and intimacy. I need feminine energy in my life. Not because i have trauma, but because i'm a healthy man and i crave it.

If you don't have self esteem issue, what in your opinion would be the problem ? (not a rhetorical question)

[JonasVE12]

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[Bando]

Get off porn its killing your drive and make a plan to meet new chicks and get yourself laid your only young once

[ivankiss]

Oh man. I can only imagine the pain.

Have you considered a prostitute? I understand it's not what you'd prefer, but it might help you blow off some steam. Release some of that built up tension and anxiety. And you could really get into finding a prostitute that resonates with you. That will not make you too nervous or anything. You could even open up yourself briefly to her about your situation. It could actually be a very pleasant experience.

Once you 'get it out of your system' (I doubt once would be enough) you'd be more capable of coming up with a plan on how to deal with this issue and stick to it.

But be careful, if you do this. That could easily become your next addition. And you would not evolve.

Still; better than pixels on a screen for an eternity - I guess ? 

Best of luck.

[Roy]

If you REALLY need to get rid of that 5 years of pent up frustration, a sex worker is a grerat idea like @ivankiss said. It's only $250-ish and there are plenty of good looking women doing it that you can contact online through different web pages. Just be careful with your language. They will know what you're after, just don't explicitly text them you want sex. Just to meet as friends. It will blow off steam and give you that release you need to calm down about it.

Otherwise you need to start dating again if you want to have sex. You can bypass all the stressful approaching and pick-up stuff by just doing online dating, it's safer anyways right now with Covid.

You've already had relationships before, so it's not like you can't easily do it again.

So make a good tinder profile, work at getting dates every day and I guarantee you will have your dick wet by the end of the month. As in start doing it right now after you read this comment. You'll feel a lot better taking action towards it than stewing in your negative thoughts about it.

Edited May 4, 2021 by Roy

[Preety_India]

Not sexually frustrated just yet. 2 months without sex. Noooo problem. 

Schlomo de homo is my name 

 

 

Simple answer : don't pussyfoot, just pussypound. 

 

 

Edited May 4, 2021 by Preety_India

[Shin]

6 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Not sexually frustrated just yet. 2 months without sex. Noooo problem. 

Schlomo de homo is my name 

 

 

Simple answer : don't pussyfoot, just pussywhip. 

 

You really do like having attention centered around you.

Don't you ?

[Preety_India]

9 minutes ago, Shin said:

You really do like having attention centered around you.

Don't you ?

Nope.  Was just stating mah opinion.. Don't need ya attention. Keep to self. Enuf said. Pfft. *scoffs*

Edited May 4, 2021 by Preety_India

[JJfromSwitzerland]

I thought my post was too mean that's why I overwrote it with this text

Edited May 5, 2021 by JJfromSwitzerland
too mean

[ilja]

Mr. Alexo Sexo,

what excatly do you fear in approaching women, the rejection or public embarrassment?