Fear of Virginity - Men

[Javfly33]

@Roy bfff I mean I would love to belief what you are saying but seems too magical thinking.

Leo says different thing. He says sex is serious business and talks about some men and women being particularly high value. 

 

[Roy]

1 minute ago, Javfly33 said:

Leo says different thing. He says sex is serious business and talks about some men and women being particularly high value. 

Yea well, Leo is wrong.

[Javfly33]

23 minutes ago, Roy said:

Yea well, Leo is wrong.

Why u think then I havent had any girlfriends even tho I am good looking ?

Social anxiety ? It wasn't because I had 0 game and there was something wrong with me? 

I must confess I didn't socialize much, that could explain why too.

So you don't believe there's such a thing as alphas/betas , Gamers/Losers

What about women, it's clear they are not attracted to virgin losers 

I particularly find something sketchy about Leo's narrative in regards to the dating stuff. But at the same time it kind of feels true in my personal experience.

Edited April 30, 2021 by Javfly33

[Shin]

27 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

Why u think then I havent had any girlfriends even tho I am good looking ?

Social anxiety ? It wasn't because I had 0 game and there was something wrong with me? 

I must confess I didn't socialize much, that could explain why too.

So you don't believe there's such a thing as alphas/betas , Gamers/Losers

What about women, it's clear they are not attracted to virgin losers 

I particularly find something sketchy about Leo's narrative in regards to the dating stuff. But at the same time it kind of feels true in my personal experience.

Be careful of how you define yourself, it has an impact you don't want to neglect ?

[Roy]

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

Why u think then I havent had any girlfriends even tho I am good looking ?

I don't know anything about you or your experiences so I don't want to make any assumptions, but I'm willing to guess your #1 problem and something you just admitted to is simply not socializing enough or physically putting yourself in positions where you can have sex or get a girlfriend.

For example when Covid is over go attend some parties. Multiple people have sex every time at just about every party that has ever happened in human history. I guarantee after attending at least 10 parties with intent (but also detached from outcome) you will get laid minimum at least once, and perhaps have a relationship/girlfriend spawning from that encounter.

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

So you don't believe there's such a thing as alphas/betas , Gamers/Losers

What about women, it's clear they are not attracted to virgin losers 

I never said anything about those dynamics. They exist in varying degree.

My point is the falsity of people believing sex is some sort of magical act, and then shaming those who haven't or choose not to have it as "less than".

Sex doesn't mean anything, unless you choose to believe it does.