What is a High Quality Man

[Raptorsin7]

What is considered a high quality man for a relationship?

How would you describe a high quality man? What is his financial situation, looks, character, values etc. 

I wonder how much it would change according to a person's SD values, i'm sure some stuff would be universal

[Eternal Unity]

A person who doesn't ask this question.

[Raptorsin7]

@Eternal Unity Haha 

[JosephKnecht]

6 minutes ago, Raptorsin7 said:

How would you describe a high quality man? What is his financial situation, looks, character, values etc. 

Read The Fountainhead or Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand.

She describes an idealized objective version of man from all aspects. 

[Eternal Unity]

1 minute ago, JosephKnecht said:

Read The Fountainhead or Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand.

She describes an idealized objective version of man from all aspects. 

Top Dollar 

[Shin]

https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges-ebook/dp/B004A8ZWM4

There may be some things he doesn't touch upon, but it looks pretty complete from my read.

 

https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Thrift-Editions-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/048629823X

It's not just a spiritual book, there is lots of advices that actually are directly geared towards men (even though it's universal advices).

[Parththakkar12]

31 minutes ago, Raptorsin7 said:

What is considered a high quality man for a relationship?

How would you describe a high quality man? What is his financial situation, looks, character, values etc. 

I wonder how much it would change according to a person's SD values, i'm sure some stuff would be universal

The reality is that this depends on the standards of the other person.

[Zeroguy]

@Raptorsin7 Be yourself. That's high quality. 

[Consept]

If you're talking about in dating terms which I'm guessing you are, it really comes down to who's attractive to the most amount of women, as in who's in the top 10 or 20%. High value denotes a scale of value so high value would have to be in this top bracket percentage. 

So it includes, financial resources, intelligence, masculine energy, being able to regulate one's emotions, can be good looks and good body. It also includes getting respect from other guys, having good social standing etc. 

In a nutshell girls want him and guys want to be him 

[Preety_India]

Someone who isn't emotionally unstable and insecure or immature. 

 

[intotheblack]

Just don’t be a dick.. 

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, intotheblack said:

Just don’t be a dick.. 

I wanted to say that.  but wasn't sure if that word was allowed on the forum.

 

[Jacob Morres]

a man who stands up for himself and his worth and doesn't put up with bullshit from the woman 

has good intentions in the relationship 

has high integrity for the woman 

emotionally stable so he is needing too much from the partner. he can give more and need less

I have many more thoughts on this topic but these are the most solid in my mind. 

 

but also high vs low quality creates a weird dilemma in the sense that you may feel like you are low quality for not having certain characteristics. just just something to observe 

[intotheblack]

1 minute ago, Preety_India said:

I wanted to say that.  but wasn't sure if that word was allowed on the forum.

 

Haha I’ve seen people say worse here ?

[Zeroguy]

9 minutes ago, intotheblack said:

Just don’t be a dick.. 

What. Oh c'mon that's where all fun is. Being douche ah nevermind. 

[Eren Eeager]

A real man is someone who:

1. very strong emotionally and psychologically. 
2. doesn't get afraid easily 
3. very patient and can tolerate a lot 
4. a leader and an example for others 
5. has good integration for the feminine as well
6. very calm and in peace 
7. expressive and can convey love 
8. doesn't break under pressure 
9. is not afraid of others' opinions 

[Preety_India]

@Eren Eeager that was a nice list. Useful. 

 

[intotheblack]

19 minutes ago, Eren Eeager said:

A real man is someone who:

1. very strong emotionally and psychologically. 
2. doesn't get afraid easily 
3. very patient and can tolerate a lot 
4. a leader and an example for others 
5. has good integration for the feminine as well
6. very calm and in peace 
7. expressive and can convey love 
8. doesn't break under pressure 
9. is not afraid of others' opinions 

?

[Eren Eeager]

 @Preety_India @intotheblack But also, what makes a quality woman? 

[Shin]

3 minutes ago, Eren Eeager said:

 @Preety_India @intotheblack But also, what makes a quality woman? 

Terrain glissant mon ami.