Does being high conscious and egoless mean you become a doormat?

[diamondpenguin]

On 4/24/2021 at 4:34 PM, Holygrail said:

I recently had a problem with a bully and I stood up to him rather reactively and got in his face. I would always control myself for the sake of understanding him and being the better person, since he obviously seems stage blue and rather miserable. But today was my breaking point and I felt like this problem wasn't going to end unless I stood up to him and threatened him to stop the BS. 

You'd better get back in his face and tell him: "bitch I'm on one, yeah you fucking with the wrong one. If you keep harassing me, I might have to fuck up your shit." This is why stage red is so important. 

[Holygrail]

1 hour ago, diamondpenguin said:

You'd better get back in his face and tell him: "bitch I'm on one, yeah you fucking with the wrong one. If you keep harassing me, I might have to fuck up your shit." This is why stage red is so important. 

i gotta let go of my fear of going to jail then lol

[SolarWarden]

5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Bashing on his office door.

"Bashing"

 

[Eternal Unity]

On 4/25/2021 at 2:34 AM, Holygrail said:

I recently had a problem with a bully and I stood up to him rather reactively and got in his face. I would always control myself for the sake of understanding him and being the better person, since he obviously seems stage blue and rather miserable. But today was my breaking point and I felt like this problem wasn't going to end unless I stood up to him and threatened him to stop the BS. 

You are a brave individual! I would have followed you, my brother ?

[SpiritualDandelion]

How to avoid the abuse of aggressive and psychopathic people is a million dollar question, so everyone will react in a different way. The biggest danger is to being dragged into conflict by aggressive and psychopathic people, because by doing so, your level of vibration for a shorter or longer period lowering and falldown to the level of consciousness of an aggressive and psychopathic person - that is your defeat.

[allislove]

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Does being high conscious and egoless mean you become a doormat?

Not at all. It means there is no believing in a separate entity that can be high conscious and egoless. To be a doormat or not to be a doormat there should be existence first in which this story appears, you are the very existence. Live as one existence and the desire to analyze every situation falls away.

[allislove]

2 hours ago, SolarWarden said:

"Bashing"

 

 LMAO

[hyruga]

2 hours ago, SolarWarden said:

"Bashing"

 

Haha looks like wwe. He was told to just bash the door and not damage any other property.

It's from The Ultimate Fighter.

Edited April 28, 2021 by hyruga

[mandyjw]

"Turn the other cheek" means that when you focus on something else, and drop the thoughts a lot of conflicts are resolved. We often create conflicts out of nothing when we practice reaction rather than focusing on what we do want. However, like in the example of the OP gave, some people and some situations are going to continue unless you do what's appropriate. Non-reaction doesn't work out so well as an ideology or a rule to follow. Outwardly you may react but inwardly you're at peace and aligned with it. Don't take on inner conflicts within yourself just to prevent outward ones, it doesn't work. 

 

[Carl-Richard]

@SolarWarden

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[Zigzag Idiot]

On 4/24/2021 at 6:34 PM, Holygrail said:

I recently had a problem with a bully and I stood up to him rather reactively and got in his face. I would always control myself for the sake of understanding him and being the better person, since he obviously seems stage blue and rather miserable. But today was my breaking point and I felt like this problem wasn't going to end unless I stood up to him and threatened him to stop the BS. 

A Mystic that I’ve studied once said that in turning the other cheek that in itself can teach the other a lesson they might never forget. He also did if they hit him a second time,,, to paraphrase,,, He’d knock the shit of them.

This also reminds me of Ken Wilber once saying during an interview in which they touched on being passive. “ If you’re in a bar and see Hitler and you happen to have a baseball bat,,whack the boy!

[WaveInTheOcean]

No.