Fleshlight as a tool for personal development

[Lyubov]

this subforum i swear lol

[Lyubov]

3 hours ago, flowboy said:

Masturbate however you want but personal development my ass

Troll post?

This should be locked IMO

Reminds me of the "sleeping with escorts for personal development" topic from awhile back

eh, I mean why does this HAVE to be off limits to discuss? people want answers about how to satisfy their sexual drive in a healthy way. it's not so obvious for everyone. male sex toys are greatly stigmatized as creepy or weird. this thread is a basis for exploring this cultural bias. 

[NOTintoxicated]

@Lyubov Is anyone here actually against the usage of these toys? I'm not. People are just knocking the idea that it would be helpful for spiritual growth or whatever. There are comedic facets to this that I don't think you can deny.

[Roy]

OP didn't say it was for spiritual enlightenment, just regular personal development and relationships.

They overlap but certainly not here.

Edited April 15, 2021 by Roy

[Forestluv]

2 hours ago, Hardkill said:

Is that for practicing anal sex?

I think it’s a tool kit for gardening ?‍? 

[Hardkill]

19 minutes ago, Forestluv said:

I think it’s a tool kit for gardening ?‍? 

lol. How? By squirting piss and shit out of this tool kit on the ground and plants??

[wwhy]

11 hours ago, Fandango said:

I have been following Actualized.org a few years now, it is a gold mine.

I have never had any issues dating girls, it really came natural to me from a very early age to know how to talk and behave around girls. Maybe it is because I grew up in a house just with girls and I know how they think and to be honest, I am good looking too.

In fact, reading the forum it amazed me to read how many guys have issues with women, I had no idea. But don´t get me wrong, I have other issues of my own.

The thing is, even though I don´t have any issues dating, at one point, it became like eating McDonalds, I was fucking a lot but no real content in the relationships. I think it is also because I was becoming more aware of my own games (like dating latinas or asian girls (instead of spanish), that are less developed than me and I know in my subconscious that it will take me less dates to get to have sex with her and that I know how to get her addicted to me like cocaine).

So the problem with no dating is... of course, no sex. And that I found I still need. I tried a Fleshlight and it is an amazing substitute for sex if you use it in a healthy way,  meaning not obsessively. I suppose like any other way of masturbation. But the different for me and the reason I wanted to write a post is this: masturbation with my hand for me was not enough sexually speaking, but masturbation with the Fleshlight It is.

Just wanted to post this in case is useful for anyone: nobody really talk much about it but the Fleshlight is a big deal.

 

[Fandango]

Don´t get fooled by the funny title of the post.

@Tian and @Roy understand what I am trying to explain here.

But it goes much more deep than that. Some more insides on this:

- Is there any healthy ways of a LP on sex toys? tech sex toys? like AI? or is it just another addiction for this already super addicted society?.

- How can I invest on technology sex toys? There is a lot of money on that, and I think it is not that developted yet

- If we were open to talk about sex toys in society, Could it help solve any of the sex crime issues?

- If it is difficult to talk about male sex toys in a forum like this, imagine talking about this with a normie friend. (sex toys, no girls and persorsonal develpment = you are crazy).

- I found this tool in my quest to be try any possible healthy solution to an issue of mine

- This tool could help you get to know yourself sexually more: it helps you explore more your imagination, what you like and not what pornhub feeds you

- If I do not need sex from a relationship, could that help to be in a more healthy relationship?

- Could a LP be like creating a company with silicon sex toys animals? why not? is that healthy? (I don´t even know if that is legal, but just as a thought).

Do not take all this too seriously, we are talking about fucking a piece of plastic for god sake, but at the same time, there is important things here to talk about I think

[Jacob Morres]

hmm well i think it's a decent tool you can use to help yourself not crave/need sex from women. i mean it can be really useful, make you a lot less needy..  

[Fandango]

Even for a guy to post here agreeing with this, meaning he owns/has tried a fleshlight-like toy, he needs to have high self-esteem. Remember, you are socially surviving even at this forum-society level

Edited April 16, 2021 by Fandango

[Potato People King]

For a spiritiual development, maybe you could use it in "Marathon monks of mt. Hiei" style - you would do it with the fleshlight like 8 hours straight without stopping or taking a break. I think it could bring you into some sort of out of your body trance, maybe similar to tantric sex or tantric masturbation. With total concentration on the act and mastering your body reactions meanwhile.

For that reason, you could use the mentioned Amazon plastic ass too, because the concepts are akin. But I imagine the ass would be more physically demanding in the long run.

The OP raised an interesting question btw - would it be beneficiary to create a perfectly realistic robot intended solely for the purpose of sexual gratificiaton, entirely customizable? So you could for example create a perfect copy of your better half and do stuff with the robot you would not normally do with your significant other? Be it because your partner does not like it or you are much more sexual then him/her?

[Fandango]

Other thoughts on that:

- Since, at a higher level, there is nobody but oneself, there is no other thing than masturbation really. Even when you are having sex with other human, at a higher level, you are having sex with yourself. It is just the universe fucking itself really.

- Could a LP be something like something like: AI Fleshlight, that learns what I like, when I like it, even better than my own hand? (shut up and get my money meme)

[SamC]

10 hours ago, NOTintoxicated said:

The thread title made me laugh. 

Next thread: Fuck My Big Black Ass Mega Masturbator toy for spiritual enlightenment?

You can buy one on Amazon, and Leo says you can't know something prior to personal experience, so lemme know if you find god after you defile one of these.

 

 

Next YouTube video - how to go Mega, part 1

[7thLetter]

Honestly you could've just worded the title in a different way such as, "Using a fleshlight to fulfill your sexual desires."

Which doesn't necessarily have anything to do with "personal development." Maybe it does but personally I don't really see it. To include the words "personal development" seems like its to just throw it in there just for the sake of it.

It's definitely healthy for us to fulfill our sexual desires in a way that doesn't involve us going out there, sleeping around or involving the "R" word so that we can focus on other things, but in my opinion an example of personal development in this case is to abstain from masturbation completely, in other words to go and do "NoFap."

By the way I own a fleshlight, feels like the real thing, I agree its better than a hand but what does that have to do with personal development is what I'm saying.

 

[Fandango]

12 minutes ago, 7thLetter said:

Honestly you could've just worded the title in a different way such as, "Using a fleshlight to fulfill your sexual desires."

Which doesn't necessarily have anything to do with "personal development." Maybe it does but personally I don't really see it. To include the words "personal development" seems like its to just throw it in there just for the sake of it.

It's definitely healthy for us to fulfill our sexual desires in a way that doesn't involve us going out there, sleeping around or involving the "R" word so that we can focus on other things, but in my opinion an example of personal development in this case is to abstain from masturbation completely, in other words to go and do "NoFap."

By the way I own a fleshlight, feels like the real thing, I agree its better than a hand but what does that have to do with personal development is what I'm saying.

 

This is how it has to do with personal development:

- How will we deal, as a society, in the near future with AI sex machines, that look like humans and performance doing sex better than a human? How do we make laws for companies not to abuse this just for profit and harming society (addictions)?

“With great power comes great responsibility” hehe. The title of this post serves purposes: be funny for you to think about this not too seriously, and secondly for outstand among the rest of the messages in the forum so I get more opinions on something it is important to me

[Rilles]

I go away for two days to get some rest from debating and arguing and this is what the forum turns into, lmao. 

[wwhy]

12 hours ago, NOTintoxicated said:

The thread title made me laugh. 

Next thread: Fuck My Big Black Ass Mega Masturbator toy for spiritual enlightenment?

You can buy one on Amazon, and Leo says you can't know something prior to personal experience, so lemme know if you find god after you defile one of these.

 

So why are they blurring out the product? How am I supposed to know exactly what am buying then? I can sue amazon for this...

[7thLetter]

1 hour ago, Fandango said:

- How will we deal, as a society, in the near future with AI sex machines, that look like humans and performance doing sex better than a human? How do we make laws for companies not to abuse this just for profit and harming society (addictions)?

I'm actually curious to see what the future holds for AI sex machines/robots.

I'm guessing this will probably disrupt the sex work industry, men will turn towards paying to use sex robots instead of prostitutes, or purchase their own robot.

This will probably start to become more and more common since its not illegal because robots are not humans and it wouldn't be considered prostitution.

This will also decrease the spread of STIs/STDs.

Edited April 16, 2021 by 7thLetter

[meow_meow]

13 hours ago, Roy said:

Anything can be used as a personal development tool really

Same as anything can be used as a dildo if you're brave enough. lol. 

[Fandango]

Do you know how to put together hardware + virtual reality + AI for sex? That’s a LP right there

Edited April 16, 2021 by Fandango