How to stop aloofness?

[Kalki Avatar]

Sadhguru explained something that happened to me in my first enligthenment experiences. When the third eye opens, meaning your energy is on that level of perception, you loose Interest in almost everything. He says that you "may" loose interest. That one should have sweet emotions to counter balance the aloofness. This affected many or my relationships and plans, job, motivation, etc. I practically just wanted to meditate all day and go within. 

So, even when I was meditating, I did have sweet emotions. My inner ambience was relaxed and sweet. What does sadhguru means here and how to create such emotions? How to be distant and involved at the same time? 

Edited April 7, 2021 by Kalki Avatar