Self talk

[Preety_India]

I'm trying to consolidate everything. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India what else is left out? 

Yea I need to check the table /chart? 

Live e detection method. 

 

[Preety_India]

 

8 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Useful links for reference and use

 

Journal section

 

Condensed recent material

 

Preety Preety list

 

Last comment

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India get absorbed into something important. 

 

10 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Useful links for reference and use

 

Journal section

 

Condensed recent material

 

Preety Preety list

 

Last comment

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

 

16 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Useful links for reference and use

 

Journal section

 

Condensed recent material

 

Preety Preety list

 

Last comment

 

How I use forum last page

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

 

1. . Journal section
2. .Condensed recent material
3. .Preety Preety list
4. . Last comment
5. . How I use forum last page

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India just calm down.  This will have a happy ending. 

Last 5 days on the forum have been absolutely terrible. I got messages that were disappointing. 

I'm going to disable my messenger. 

No more pm. 

No more anyone pming me.. 

I do not want anything.. 

 

Edited April 26, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India the people that I don't want to talk to are on my blacklist. And the pm is sorted out.. I'll ignore as many as possible so that I don't receive their pm. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India so majority of people are blocked from pming me. Any new PMs that are negative will be blocked

Don't wish to wake up to reading negative shit and ruin my mornings. 

Any new person pming will be blocked because there is low trust level with new accounts. 

It could be old users creating new accounts.  There's that. 

This is relief 

 

Strict boundaries. That's the only way to deal with this 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India any person who continues to pm me will only be allowed if they carry out decent conversations with me or have presented themselves respectfully in the past and have a decent history with conversations. 

 

Not putting up with your shit anymore. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India no more conversations in the journal section. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India @Preety_India 

Also I need to do a bit of compartmentalization. 

People who are not acting in a decent manner and not showing public civility, I'll categorize them as "difficult to deal with" and compartmentalize them that way.  

I need not talk to the difficult ones. 

I can go along with the easy going ones. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India  rules are rules. That's it.  Rules are not going to change. Personal boundaries are only created when rules are made and enforced. 

This has to be done for personal security and safety...... 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India elaborate scheme to deal with these things.. 

 

Make sure that this doesn't happen again. 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India  once people are placed on block or ignore, they won't be taken off ignore or block. 

Done is done.. 

 

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[Preety_India]

@Preety_India and yes no more second guessing stuff. First guess is enough.. 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India remember to remove and completely delete any conversations with people who have been blocked previously. 

The messenger still allows PMs to come in despite the person being placed on block if old conversations exist. Delete those conversations so that these messages cannot get in through. 

One person had done that long ago.. Need to remind myself how to rid those loopholes. 

No more compromising. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India

Three  important statements to be made here. 

I DO NOT NEED RESPECT FROM DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE (KILL THAT NEED)

 

I NEED NOT IMPRESS DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE

 

PEOPLE WHO ARE NATURALLY RESPECTFUL ARE ALWAYS RESPECTFUL AND DON'T NEED TO BE IMPRESSED. 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India

Be as avoidant as possible. 

Use Dragon energy here. Make it tougher and tougher for people to come to you. 

This only allows people who are humble enough to be in your zone. The rest are out. 

 

[Preety_India]

@Preety_India  and if people tell you that you're intimidating then don't care about their judgement. 

They can go to hell