Creating a vision of my girlfriend / ideal relationship

[BornToBoil]

This journal is completely inspired by @Preety_India's journals and my inability to fall asleep. Actually I think that imagining your perfect soulmate is not very useful, but at least it's fun

Looks:

I am going to start with the easiest thing which for me is looks. I don't really have any super strict requirements in that area. I obviously need to be attracted to her physically and she also shouldn't be too fat. A little bit extra weight is ok if she maintains healthy lifestyle overall. Also I like it when girls have thin delicate hands with long fingers.

[Preety_India]

Haha good job. At least I was useful in this way 

 

 

[BornToBoil]

Character traits:

- Introverted
- Optimistic
- Shares similar sense of humor
- Energetic
- Adventurous
- Open-minded
- Kind
- Honest
- Growth oriented
- Ambitious and purposeful
- Mentally strong
- Romantic

[BornToBoil]

Specifics:

Loves to sing and dance, shares my music tastes at least partially.

Is able to speak Russian or at least is in the process of learning it if she is a foreigner.

Has her own purpose in life, apart from having a relationship, it would be awesome if we eventually discovered one common life purpose.

Is willing to work on our relationship, to make it as great as it can possibly be. Is able to discuss everything that needs to be discussed without freaking out, getting angry and stuff like that.

Is into her own personal development work. Although, she doesn't have to be super spiritual or anything, her being into meditation or at least being open minded about the topic is a huge plus.

Doesn't engage in stupid low consciousness activities like gossiping about people, judging people behind their backs and stuff like that. Is honest and kind-hearted.

Doesn't push me to have kids until I am ready and really want to have kids, which isn't going to happen earlier than 35+ years old for me. It is ok if she doesn't want to have kids at all, I could deal with that.

Doesn't drink or smoke or is willing to quit.

Leads a healthy lifestyle in general, is fit, not necessarily an athlete (although I don't mind), but also not a couch potato.

Is open minded about being vegan or vegeterian, but doesn't have to be.

Cares about the environment.

Is willing to experiment and work on our sex life.

Doesn't mind living in Ukraine in case I decide that it's necessary for realizing my life purpose.

[BornToBoil]

Inspirational Relationship Examples

Anatoly and Olga Shariy

Omg, my heart just melts when I look at them. Going trough lots of shit and hardships together, sharing the same life purpose. Not to mention that both of them are really inspirational individuals by themselves. Just no words... they are awesome!
 

Dasha and Vlad
 

Super loving and romantic stage green relationship

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Ok, I think I am done here for now

Edited April 5, 2021 by BornToBoil

[BornToBoil]

@Preety_India haha, yes thank you. It turned out to be actually really helpful and motivational to do this.

[Preety_India]

@BornToBoil you're a Taurus? 

 

[BornToBoil]

@Preety_India yeah

[BornToBoil]

Ok, I wasn't done, I forgot to include those guys

[BornToBoil]

Tatyana Kravchuk

This woman gives me chills. She is so strong and brave, it's absolutely amazing. I would love my gf to be a bit like her.