what do you (honestly) say to your partner during sex ?

[levani]

and what to avoid

[flowboy]

If you're thinking about what to say during sex, you ain't doing it right. Don't be so in your head, let go. Sex will be so much better.

 

So any answer to this question will not help you but hurt you, cause now you're going to try to remember to say the right thing, putting you even more in your head, so the connection gets interrupted and you stop feeling into your partner.

Edited March 28, 2021 by flowboy

[intotheblack]

Guys on the forum be like..

[meow_meow]

You would probably want to avoid talking about non-dual nature of reality & God especially right during the intercourse. I remember I once started to sing a song that I heard on the TV the other day about going on trips on rocket ships right before anal ... my partner was not happy with that.

[levani]

@intotheblack hahahahahha, me

@meow_meow oh maaaaan, wish you didn't tell me that, "baby, i'm awareeeneeeeesss, i'm consciousness too !"@meow_meow damn hahaha

 

 

@datamonster hardeeeeeer hahahah

Edited March 28, 2021 by levani

[Lyubov]

Am I in yet? 

[At awe]

Well, some girls like to listen. Try something relatively soft first and see where it takes you..

[Preety_India]

 

Fuck me h 

[levani]

@Preety_India mmmm daddy hardeeeer ???

 

@At awe yeah that can turn some girls off i think when you're feeling lovy cuddly, when some of them just really wanna be fucked hard against the wall

 

@Lyubov lol my ex played a prank on me and said one time when i was balls deep, "is it in yet", ngl it switched me hahahahahhahaha

[levani]

@neutralempty it is innit, but still there must be some sort of guide to tune your emotions/frequency together

[Roy]

My last partner started speaking Russian to me unexpectedly which needless to say made me work 2x harder.

So if you know a second language that's your secret weapon 

[OceanRiver]

13 hours ago, datamonster said:

something like "oh, ooooh, ooooh, oh yeah baby, who's your daddy?"

just kidding ;D

For submissives. And that's for real.  

[levani]

@Roy yeah... actually it's russian.... hahahahahaha i'm fucking russian bro hahahaha

i don't think russian sounds very sexy but i'll give it a go

@OceanRiver maaaad ting bruv

[At awe]

@modmyth Theoretically You got it right. I’ve been physics professor many times. But my students kept failing so often that self doubt creeped in. I mean who wants to be bad at their job? Although depressed professor could be one option ?

[GreenLight]

In the living room i hear: you are god!

In the bedroom i hear: oh god!

 

 

 

Edited March 29, 2021 by GreenLight

[meow_meow]

20 hours ago, Roy said:

My last partner started speaking Russian to me unexpectedly which needless to say made me work 2x harder.

What did he say? Faster "cyka blyat?" lol. 

[Emerald]

Communicate what feels natural... like what you're enjoying in the moment. 

Like if you're enjoying her appearance you can tell her she's looks beautiful, hot, cute, etc.

Or if you're enjoying the pleasure, you can tell her in more explicit or subtle ways how good she's making you feel.

Basically, speak your pleasures and enjoyments out to her as they arise. 

But you don't want to have these things in your mind beforehand. You just want to be very attuned to your own body and emotions and willing/able to communicate what comes to mind in the moment... here and there.

[meow_meow]

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what do you (honestly) say to your partner during sex ?

Depends, you'd probably wouldnt want to say anything if you're in prison.

TBH I don't think that breeding is the time for talking...

[Nahm]

@levani

Don’t avoid the intimacy, communicate, ask her / him. We are as unique in sexuality as we are in personality, but when such two become one, pshh, then fuggetaboutit, naturally lose yourself. Pretend this communication is not foreplay. Add that element of intensity and excitement. Game face. What a turn on such a confidence & comfortableness in intimacy & expression that is. ? Inner being flooded with “omg...I want that!”, similar to assertiveness brings out, attracts, assertiveness, and the (often subconscious if you will)... I want that!!