What Do If You Have A Very Toxic Relationship With A Family Member?

[BHL_20]

We live in the same house and I wouldn't be able to get a place of my own for at least a year yet. It's having a large negative impact on both our lives. What can I do to minimize this problem?

[Xpansion]

Hmm it's tricky.   Do you know anyone you can stay with? A friend?   If not can you rent a room in a share house? How toxic is it exactly?   Hopefully there is no abuse of any kind happening. If there is you could seek refuge somewhere. I'm not sure how to advise you on this to be honest.   If it's really unbearable then you need to find an alternative accomodation. Hope you get it sorted.

[BHL_20]

@Xpansion No it's not abusive just very stressful.

[mikeyy]

Meditate be mindful of the persons toxic patterns and how that triggers patterns in u I have a similiar thing but u can transform it Into a spiritual practice

[Jared Gregory]

this can be a great lesson to learn from. I am sorry it is causing you a lot of stress. But be aware when the negativity comes your way don't slip into unconsciousness, be alert present and just observe the behavior.  

If you can improve the situation then that is great too.  

[Dimples]

Did you think about renting a place? Or just minimize your interactions to them even if you live in the same house. I used to have the same situation before but it was just with a friend. When i stop talking to that friend often, it stops giving me lots of stress too.