Bringing Holism & Holistic Thinking to Dating and Attraction

[Lyubov]

I'm feeling sort of gross and sad atm. I realized (I had an intellectual understanding of this but the emotional side is sprouting up more recently) that the whole domain of dating and attraction in my life is about serving the self and seeking fulfillment of my sexual and emotional needs and to a degree the girl's as well since I desire to be a provider as a man. Basically all the sweet texts I send and emotional support and conversations I have with women I'm attracted to is about fulfilling these needs. If there wasn't the opportunity to fulfill these needs with the girls I talk to I wouldn't be talking to them. I'm going to brainstorm and contemplate on this more. What are some insights you all have had to bring holism to dating? 

Edited March 22, 2021 by Lyubov

[integral]

Great Question +1

Edited March 22, 2021 by integral