I've noticed that every few days, a thread or two in this subforum get flooded with debates about the same topic: Attraction. I contemplated this phenomenon and why it happens regularly, and came up with a few explanations. They might not be true, but at least that's my take. I wanted to share it here to create awareness, not to invoke anyone. So here's my list of potential causes: Past traumatic experiences, which seem to play out in these discussions, as everyone seems to contribute with their share of insecurities/biases. Lack of action in real life, which probably makes us invest a lot of time in forming a lot of theories that might not have much to do with reality. This is probably reinforced by the covid-19 situation. Procrastination on taking action, again probably reinforced by the lock down. Solutions: I guess, a detailed Leo video on dating would be ideal. Otherwise, I don't know. I'm trying to integrate women's perspectives here alongside dating coaches advice. I find myself inclined to comment sometimes, but I take a step back and watch mostly.