Went soft during my first time having sex

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@Spiral yea I put one on, but my girl said she was on birth control, so I ended up not needing one. 

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@Nomad13 I did (and to an extent still do) have a problem with jerking off every single day, sometimes more than once a day if I'm really bored. Definitely could some correlation there

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@bejapuskas I do have general insecurities about myself, so that definitely plays a part. On the journey to eliminating these insecurities

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@kray  Do what Hugo Oliveira suggested every time, it can make her wet which makes everything easier and less painful. Condoms are not only preventing pregnancy, but also STDs. Sometimes queer people mistakenly think that using condoms is useless and they end up catching diseases. I think not jerking off everyday might help you get out of your head and become more in flow.