Sex question

[Yahya]

Hi,

What advice would you guys give to someone who is having sex for the first time?

 

[flume]

• Keep expectations down
• No pressure, more of a "let's just see how this is" - mindset
• Do it with someone you trust
• Talk about it upfront
• Spend a long time on foreplay
• Communicate during the experience. How does it feel? Is someone hurting/ feeling uncomfortable? Don't be afraid to take a step back if needed
• No crazy positions to begin with. Choose a position where you can look into your partners eyes and feel them closely
• Use proper contraception
• Use lube
• Enjoy :-)

[WonderSeeker]

15 minutes ago, flume said:

• Spend a long time on foreplay

Yes.

• Focus on your partner
• Breathe deeply and slowly

[flowboy]

Practice opening and putting on the condom many times. Keep it on and masturbate with the condom on a couple times (not to completion necessarily, save your semen :p), so that you get used to the action and the feeling of having it on and being horny, and it doesn't weird you out when the moment is there.

Also: Just Have Fun!