Tried to have sex, my penis didn't work

[Javfly33]

On 14/2/2021 at 2:50 AM, Leo Gura said:

@Strangeloop 

Use porn to discover what genuinely turns you on and what doesn't.

Not sure if porn is the most accurate way to know what turns you on.

My porn tastes were significantly different than my actual sexual tastes. ?

 

[Emerald]

@Strangeloop I ask this because I want you to look at this deeper...

Why would it be so bad if you were gay?

Are there any negative consequences (or assumed negative consequences) in terms of loss of identity, social ostracism, or things/people that you fear losing?

My guess is that it's not really being gay that would be so bad to you. It's probably what you fear you'll have to face if that were true.

And even if you're not actually gay, dropping resistance to being gay will clear the muddied waters.

[Strangeloop]

I will just have to contemplate on what is being gay and what is being straight and am I one of them or neither of those.

[vindicated erudite]

On 13/02/2021 at 6:30 AM, Strangeloop said:

So I sleptover at this girl's house. If you read my previous post it's the same girl. I went a bit farther tonight, we bot got naked, but I got nervous and my when I tried to put a condom on my dick just shrunk. I tried it again with the girl's help to put it on, I got it on. Now the next step was to put my dick inside vagina. And that's when I really got anxious, I tried again and again and it didn't work. I couldn't put it in. As soon as I got my dick to a fairly erect state I tried to put it in and as I tried it shrunk back to almost nothing. So I gave up and now we're eating sandwiches.

Thoughts?

Was it your first time?

[Strangeloop]

@vindicated erudite A sober first time yes.