Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter

[Bando]

You motivate yourself by seeing what's possible and compare it to what your life will look like if you dont change.

What advice do want us to give you? Its up to YOU to figure out these obstacles, stop outsourcing your problems so easily and actually attempt to come up with your own solutions.

[Girzo]

@ColeMC01 Meditating daily, not missing any days? 40 minutes at least?

Edited February 13, 2021 by Girzo

[Lyubov]

OP needs to cultivate more self love

[Hardkill]

9 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

OP needs to cultivate more self love

Maybe in order to first make it fun for him to approach women, he can start doing pranks on, them? Like "Hey, you wanna suck on my jolly rancher?" Then pull the jolly rancher out from your pocket and show it to them. You and the girls are bound to laugh. Watch the jolly rancher video made by trollmunchies on Youtube.

[Gili Trawangan]

You're not seeing yet how much fun it can be.

[Roy]

Yea it's absolutely not fair @ColeMC01, but you have to ask yourself if you really want it, what other choice do you have?

[Yali]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

And it was an exciting journey. 

@Leo Gura I want to learn more about your journey. Sounds inspirational!

Edited February 13, 2021 by Yali

[Reciprocality]

You want advices for how to appriciate being the hunter although you are nothing like one?

I think i see some of your problems but they wont get solved to the extent i answer these questions. What is your natural inclination towards a woman you have met? Is this inclination not a manifistation of something about yourself you do not will into being? I will say yes, whereby you are destined to action.

What do you desire that action to be? If you are not a 'hunter' from nature then why fool yourself thinking it will help you decieving women that you are? 

I must admit i may be the confused one here, but let's see.

[Gesundheit]

"I hate" something means I don't really want the end result.

You don't really want to get laid, probably because you're too much living in your comfort zone of porn and masturbation.

Try no-fap. Maybe something will shift.

[MrBON]

@Gesundheit I did it for 140 days last year. I just hate the process of hunting, that is all. Is that soo hard to believe?

I love being social, meeting people, making jokes and being cool likable in general. I just do not like the part where you "hunt".

[Gesundheit]

@MrBON Okay, don't hunt. Keep waiting until girls approach you. Problem solved.

[StarStruck]

It is not hunting. It is dancing.

Prey don't want to be captured but women do.

With hunting mentality you still can get pussy if you are high value.

You can use both mentalities but it really depends on what you want; just pussy or a relationship?

If you want a relationship you will need to dance as in figure of speech. Show her that you are high quality male and that you can provide for her.

If you just want pussy, you need to camouflage your high quality traits (if you have some), and just be fun and pump out good emotions for her, let her qualify herself to you in exchange for fun. If you are fun,pussy will come.

[somegirl]

Well, both guys and girls face different difficulties in life based on their gender.

You can view "hunting" as just part of this whole game called life. We as women also play this game whether we like it or not. 

Just try to view it as a fun game full of rules, which, if you play along and follow the rules, you will almost always get what you desire.

[Javfly33]

This is because you are not connected right now with your masculine energy.

It might sound new-agey but it´s true.

You must discover aspects of you, like self-expression, confidence, energy, assertiveness-proyection, etc.

Once you tap into it you will get to enjoy it. 

Dont you feel pain when you see a very hot girl you would like to meet and you don´t? Well developing that masculine approaching/hunter energy will provide you of great experiences such as that. 

I honestly feel like a shit when I want to but I don´t. So that energy is actually a blessing we can tap into

 

[benny]

@Leo Gura It only took you a few months to completely turn things around in your love life?

 

Please share more.

[Display_Name]

Your options are a) be very good looking and tinder, b) have a lot of money / social status and host events, c) learn game and approach or d) don't partake in the dating game

 

Edited February 13, 2021 by Display_Name

[Michael569]

21 hours ago, ColeMC01 said:

I really like the idea of girls doing the work and me just having to pick the one i prefer.

this made me spill soup on my keyboard slightly but worth the damage  

[benny]

@somegirl What are the rules?

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, Michael569 said:

this made me spill soup on my keyboard slightly but worth the damage  

;

I'm imagining girls around a guy like bees circling a flower.  and the flower choosing one bee 

 

[flowboy]

1 hour ago, Display_Name said:

Your options are a) be very good looking and tinder, b) have a lot of money / social status and host events, c) learn game and approach or d) don't partake in the dating game

 

This.

However, OP doesn't really want to get laid. He's content in his current situation. And that's okay.