Stuck in a rut

[Nishant]

I am 27 year old. Over a 100kg since always. Working a dead end govt job and got no hardcore skills yet. Abused physically and mentally as a kid. Socially anxious and introvert. Currently addicted to food, weed and emotional drama. 

I want to be fitter. Explore my sexuality and stop chasing unavailable women. Get over the anxiety and lack of confidence.  Escape wage slavery. Contribute to the world as a writer/artist. Hopefully pursue enlightenment through contemplation and psychedelics. 

The biggest issue I face is consistency. I don't stick with anything. All my efforts are divided. I try to chase 10 different things at the same time, work myself up and quit altogether to revert to benders. 

Is it possible for somebody to come back from such a mess? At the age that I am at? I believe that I am smart. But I can't point out any other quality in myself that I can count on. What should I do? What can I do. 

P.s I am focusing on getting fitter before anything else. But don't have any results yet to show for it. 

[Preety_India]

 

• Starting working on your mood 
• Reduce anxiety daily 
• Start watching motivation videos 
• Focus on health 
• Develop a spiritual practice 
• Do affirmations
• Remove negative thinking 
• Get a new suiting  job or entrepreneurship
• Develop social skills for dating 
• Work on addictions
• Have permanent life goals

 

 

[Nahm]

1 hour ago, Nishant said:

 Is it possible for somebody to come back from such a mess?

Not only that, but it’s possible to change our interpretations and spot how we’ve identified via conditioning. It’s effortless to reinterpret one is not even stuck, by appreciating all one has and has experienced. Choosing outlooks and an attitude about past & present that feels good to you, good feeling future perspectives arise naturally. This also happens with even the smallest changes to fitness & diet. It’s even possible to realize the one the discordant thoughts seem to be about doesn’t even exist. 

1 hour ago, Nishant said:

At the age that I am at?

At any age, even at no age. Seeing both sides of duality free’s the mind. It’s true you’re 27, and also it’s true that there’s no such things as time. 

1 hour ago, Nishant said:

I believe that I am smart. But I can't point out any other quality in myself that I can count on. What should I do? What can I do. 

Whatever you want. Use a dreamboard to not only seee it all in front of you, but connect via feeling, inspiration. 

1 hour ago, Nishant said:

P.s I am focusing on getting fitter before anything else. But don't have any results yet to show for it. 

No one cares about results, just feeling better, which is always available. 

[SamC]

On 2021-02-06 at 10:49 PM, Nishant said:

I am 27 year old. Over a 100kg since always. Working a dead end govt job and got no hardcore skills yet. Abused physically and mentally as a kid. Socially anxious and introvert. Currently addicted to food, weed and emotional drama. 

I want to be fitter. Explore my sexuality and stop chasing unavailable women. Get over the anxiety and lack of confidence.  Escape wage slavery. Contribute to the world as a writer/artist. Hopefully pursue enlightenment through contemplation and psychedelics. 

The biggest issue I face is consistency. I don't stick with anything. All my efforts are divided. I try to chase 10 different things at the same time, work myself up and quit altogether to revert to benders. 

Is it possible for somebody to come back from such a mess? At the age that I am at? I believe that I am smart. But I can't point out any other quality in myself that I can count on. What should I do? What can I do. 

P.s I am focusing on getting fitter before anything else. But don't have any results yet to show for it. 

Focus on one thing at a time bro. That's the key. Also take Leo's Life purpose course to develop your vision.

If I were you I would start with the LP course and than try to do 1 vid everyday where you take notes and do all the exercises. If you do that, you will develop a compelling vision for your future and can than start to chip away at it. Remember though - 1 thing at a time. Focus. 

You.got.this