How To Truely Forgive

[Elton]

Critical topic for self actualizing. 

[100rockets]

Leo please make a video on this!

[Elton]

Thank you @Leo Gura:-) 

I loved this vedio specially how you integrated the psychological and spiritual aspects such kind of vedios can be very helpful for people in my stage of personal development and myself. 

I have a intuition that Listening to this multiple times will have a dramatic effect in my life. 

 

[Rilles]

yes, great video! i know a person ive hated deeply since childhood, time to start doing some forgiveness :}

[wordsforliving]

Arrived at just the right time. 

 

[28 cm unbuffed]

I understood it today. It's counterintuitive, but - to truly forgive someone you gotta be selfish in some way lol, a quick story:

There was one situation and one girl, that I couldn't forgive.

The first step I took, was doing everything, that was in my power, to talk with her and sort things out (I am a perfectionist, so I took my a while to get this done 100%). It didn't work out in the end, but I was sure, that I did everything that I could and my conscience is clear. 

And just after I did all of that, a friend of mine wrote me something like this: "maybe for me, these kinds of situations are easy, because of my character traits, but I am just too prideful to make these things stop me". 

In the end, if you know it's them, that treat you wrong and hurt you, it takes pride to forget about all of it and walk away. 

Edited May 12, 2020 by 28 cm unbuffed