How do I know I'm lying to myself?

[Vision]

What are some methods/questions I could ask myself to help me break down my false identity? 

[Blackbeat]

To preface, you watched Leos, you lie to yourself video right?

[Leo Gura]

@Vision Are you sure you want to know??

Well, then, if you dare:

"What are all the ways I'm lying to myself?"

[Preety_India]

 

Ask yourself 

Do I really want this? 

Is this my authentic expression? 

Is this what my heart wants? 

Am I lying to others or self? 

Am I living an authentic life? 

 

If the answers to the above questions is Yes, then you have an idea whether you're lying or not. 

 

[Megan Alecia]

When someone makes you feel insecure, sit with the emotion instead of planning your move

[diamondpenguin]

@Preety_India what do you do for a living? You seem to have everything figured out?

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin I've written that in another thread of how many hours you work in the Actualization section. I do a lot of things like event management, networking, marketing etc. 

I also work for a local cafeteria on sales and order management. 

 

Edited January 28, 2021 by Preety_India

[diamondpenguin]

28 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@diamondpenguin I've written that in another thread of how many hours you work in the Actualization section. I do a lot of things like event management, networking, marketing etc. 

I also work for a local cafeteria on sales and order management. 

 

So you do freelancing? 

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin nope.

[diamondpenguin]

2 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@diamondpenguin nope.

Wanna know what I do? 

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, diamondpenguin said:

Wanna know what I do? 

Yes ofc. What 

[diamondpenguin]

@Preety_India Im a college kid going for a project management degree. To pay for it I work at the grocery store and do food delivery. I'm always on the grind. Government actually helps out paying for it cause i live in a really liberal area. I am learning other stuff on the side too like coding skills and Spanish as well pick up skills, and automotive technical skills. When I was in 8th grade I took a class at the OIT on computer hardware. It was intense as hell and now I am a certified pc tech. I am also making yt videos to enhance my public speaking skills and on top of that I am a musician who plays piano and makes songs. Mostly pop rock right  now, I used to be really into being a rapper but lost the passion after I quit smoking weed and the culture was too toxic. So mostly singing and making music in fl studio for that. Lots of things I do. 

[Blackbeat]

That's alot of things indeed.

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin looks like your plate is full. 

I'd like to add something to your mix that will change your life like an explosion —

Learn socializing and communication. Talk to a ton of people. Work for small sales companies during summer or vacation. 

Get in touch with local businesses in your area. Tell them you can make a quick buck. Learn to talk fluently like a used car salesman. 

Initially you'd feel like you aren't doing much, but once you pick up speed, then people would want to hire you as their lucky mascot. 

You will get hired as a manager and that will get you on a good track to a stable job 

From there you can start your own startup business. 

Instead of you doing the deliveries, you will be hiring boys your age to do the deliveries. 

There's a ton of demand for grocery startups in your country. It's raging in my country right now. But the startup capital is high 

I'm just dropping you a hint. Because I don't see you in a coding job, that's a sucker job to be honest, you get tired after a while like a used prostitute. 

Right now the hottest deal on the market are comfort startups like grocery delivery startups or fitness startups or Uber service startups. 

You can make tons of money if you can manage such a company. Even if you don't own the company, if you are simply working as a marketing manager or executive, your income will go through the roofs. 

You need a great charming personality, so preserve your looks and develop great charming communication with people. 

Give seminars. Attend local events. Talk talk talk. Learn to catch people's pulses, learn how to impress them and learn how to attract crowds. 

Most successful people know how to attract a crowd, it's not easy, but it's hell rewarding once you get going. 

Time is on your side because you're young. Develop great passion for work and a strong worth ethic. 

Quit all drugs and do solid work on your health, not necessarily a gym body, that's not necessary, just a healthy body with proper diet, regular exercise and a robust sleep schedule. 

If you watch porn, then quit that and put all your energies into your career and work. 

Work hard each day to upgrade all your skills collectively. It's your Armour in the world. 

You should be so good at what you're doing that everyone should want to work with you.

Don't give into what others say, wage slavery and all that nonsense, it's all BIG BULLSHIT. 

It's only 1 percent that end up profiting being a business owner. 

There is no wage slavery per se. Wage slavery is only for people who do garbage jobs or pimp themselves into lame software work or exploitative work. 

There is no wage slavery for a king. People will throw money at you. Show them you're a king. 

Focus on money. That's the start point. Only when you are financially secure, you can relax and pursue spirituality. 

You can't pursue spirituality as a beggar.

Then once your career life is set, you can also include spirituality in your kitty and complete your ARSENAL 

Right now you don't need a person like Sadhguru or Leo or Eckhart Tolle. 

Right now you need Tony Robbins or someone similar. 

You are in the midst of your masculinity Blossoming. You need to thrust that masculine energy to get a substantial career. A career that can reward you all life. 

Have great faith in yourself. 

This is the advice I can give you as a young woman. 

 

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin

And remember ambition is your key. It's your greatest key. 

I was extremely ambitious in school. 

And even after all the setbacks in my personal life, I'm still trying to get my ambition back. 

You can see my ambition in my passionate language. 

I never lost my ambition no matter what. 

That's what keeps me going 

Ambition is your greatest friend and guide. 

Be so fucking ambitious (not greedy, just ambitious)  that you will look like a Skyscraper in front of people. 

My mantra and motto is this. 

Always tell yourself - I'm bigger than myself, and I Will make it happen no matter what. This life is for me, I'm not for it. Nobody beats me other than me. 

Keep telling yourself everyday that you are better than yourself. 

 

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin be so damn good and excellent that people will envy you from right, left and center. 

Be competitive as Hell.

My mantra is this - when it comes to self development, be a titan, when it comes to spirituality, be a sage, fuse both into your character, achievement and morality. 

Outcompete everyone like a Megalodon. 

 

Edited January 28, 2021 by Preety_India

[diamondpenguin]

@Preety_India that's really an eye opening piece of text there for me. I really do love talking with people, it is certainly a lot of fun. I really wish I had your ambition even though I'm pretty ambitious and really like to be creative. I've really learned a lot from the manager at the place I work your right a coding job would suck just sitting there type type at some crap. Managing the company and working with people is quite fun. Thanks for your advice I really needed. For the time being leo gura and eckhart tolle people are too airy fairy and hippie for someone who wants to start a career. You definitely carry a lot of passion in your voice. I love it. 

Edited January 28, 2021 by diamondpenguin

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin you will make it.

I have faith in you. 

 

[diamondpenguin]

@Preety_India Thanks so much preety. I got some questions for you though. When you say get in touch with local businesses to say I can make a quick buck. What does that mean?

[Preety_India]

@diamondpenguin tell them that you want to sell their products and build their customer base. Show them you can sell sell and sell a lot.

They will start treating you like a Genie.