Hardkill

Does doing something this crazy actually work to attract women?

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@Hardkill What's your goal? 

If you want to attract normal, decent and nice girl (that most people consider girlfriend type), she will certainly not like to be flashed/surprised like that. She will find it inappropriate and gross. Might even call the police.

If you want the type that suck stranger's dick, because she likes his "confidence" and alpha energy he radiates when he does these type of things in public (even though she met him 2 minutes ago), then do outrageous and scandalous things like that.

But I feel asking about whether or not these things that are out of the norm work, are just used as a distraction from actually going out and talking to girls and being a decent human being. As if you would ever use this technique in the first place, so why even ask if this works. Who cares. 

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4 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

Thanks, Preety.

I've seen you and other forum members not letting themselves confused by this type of behavior and I thought I'd might join the club ;).

You're a great addition to our club. You are on board

Welcome. :)

 

 


INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

Cleared out ignore list today. 

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@Etherial Cat You initiated this dynamic the moment you tried to impose your limited pov on me. I wasn't even talking to you. However, you compared me to a creep, and told me in an imperative manner not to do that behavior. Look here:

On 14/01/2021 at 4:15 PM, Etherial Cat said:

Cold sending dick pick doesn't put you far off from the creep flashing his dick to women in the park. Don't do it. 

This was your first post on this topic. I didn't talk to you first, you did. And you had no right to tell me what I should or shouldn't do, but you let yourself get away with that. I didn't focus on it at the time because I understand and appreciate the fact that people are different. I said that haters will hate in a tongue-in-cheek way.

You don't want to accept that what you judge as wrong, is not actually wrong. And you want everyone to be like you, which is not and will never be the case. You're limiting yourself from a larger perspective, so of course you will perceive my attempts to expand yours as condescending, when in fact it isn't. It's just a desire to share an understanding. 

I don't only think that you're stuck in victim mentality, I am 100% sure that you are. It isn't reliable what you think because you can't see your limitations because you're too identified/occupied with your pov to be able to look outside of it. I'm telling you that the color red exists, but you can't see it, and moreover, you're trying to blind me and others from that experience. What can I do to make you see it other than telling you to look? The video clearly shows that your perspective is not universal and that there are people that don't share the same problem as you, but you can't accept that that could even be the case. And you want me to buy into your delusions? Sorry, but I just can't. What you're subscribing to here is just delusional thinking, which is why I'm teaching you, because I claim to be an expert on the topic of delusion. And to me, you're clearly deluded. You will probably get offended by anything I say, so that gives me freedom to not sugar-coat my posts anymore.

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TLDR, instead of being a jerk, you could have not initiated this conversation in the first place. And instead of spinning narratives against me and justifying false positions, you could have told me from the beginning that you are not interested in breaking out of victim-hood, or you know, just remained silent. But no, you just want to argue to preserve your pov. And well, for me, there's no point in that sort of thing. It's just a waste of time, as it has always been.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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1 minute ago, Etherial Cat said:

You've commented one on my post and I started engaging with you to answer both your remark and comment your insistance on cold sending dick picks after Leo advised you not to.

See? That's all you do. You deny that you have made a mistake by starting the conversation on this topic. Because you don't want to take responsibility for your own actions and you want to blame me for your own problems. Your perception is too clouded by biases that now you're providing false information. Leo was not advising me. He wasn't even talking with me. I deliberately replied to him, and you deliberately replied to me. That particular post was not directed at you, and you started this conversation. End of discussion.

It is okay for many people/women to see a random dick flashed at them, like it or not. This is reality.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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